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Friends or Foes?
This episode hits deep.
Des the Diva shares a moment of truth after 20 years of friendship—and it sets off a raw, insightful conversation about fake friends, boundaries, and emotional peace. From subtle shade to full-on betrayal, we explore how to recognize real ones and release what no longer serves.
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Welcome to the Heavyweight Podcast.
Speaker 2:The message behind saying the title of the Heavyweight Podcast is to be able to say that we can weigh in on some heavy shit. What we're talking about is important from every aspect of it. It's a heavy weight. It's not just about physical weight, but the weight of things that can weigh our minds. So I think it's dope that we can have this conversation mind. So I think it's dope that we can have this conversation.
Speaker 3:Have you ever been friends with somebody and just thought to yourself I don't think this person really actually likes me? I know I have, for sure, definitely had a friend for 20 plus years and it took me that long to realize that heifer don't like me. I'm Des the Diva. We're back with episode 203 and we're talking about friendships. Today I'm here with these three awesome gentlemen that I do consider my real friends. Introduce yourself. Don't do that. I do and I do.
Speaker 1:Introduce yourself I'm sorry let's start on this side. I'm Fatigued Hardison.
Speaker 3:And I love it Hardison.
Speaker 1:Yeah, Fatigued.
Speaker 3:Hardison, and I love it how you doing Fatigued.
Speaker 1:Not camouflage. You, sir Tired.
Speaker 3:Why am I doing this? It's your boy, molito.
Speaker 4:Molito. Fo McFly oh my god, mcfly with the bars, don't do that while I'm drinking and, as I mentioned, I'm Des the Diva.
Speaker 3:How was everybody's week? Let's start over here with Fo. How was your week? Mcfly, just Fo-ing it, I'm not going to do this with Fo.
Speaker 2:How was your week, mcfly, just Fo-ing it?
Speaker 3:I'm not going to do this with you.
Speaker 2:I got off of a vacation, so I was enjoying my vacation. I went to the beach.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you did and you enjoyed yourself.
Speaker 4:Was it cheeky, oh man.
Speaker 2:I'm not going to respond to that. Well, what I will say was it was very therapeutic and relaxing and I got to see the kids enjoy the beach. The baby has a death wish.
Speaker 3:Wait what? Why do you say that he's so cute?
Speaker 2:You know he's like oh let's take the baby and get his feet wet. And he was trying to go completely into the ocean. I said this motherfucker is fearless. And every single time he would take it up a notch. So first it was his feet, then he was like, yeah, let's do the waist. Then he was like you know what? Fuck it, I'm going to sit down. I said this motherfucker is really trying to get into this ocean. And then when you would try to pull him away, he would fight you tooth and nail because he really wanted to be in the ocean. So we left. Well, he made you leave. We had to because he was trying to kill himself. So we were there for two hours, but we shouldn't have done him get in the ocean.
Speaker 2:Like he shouldn't have got his feet wet, because when he got his feet wet, he wanted.
Speaker 3:Let him in some baby swimming class because you might have a surfer or something on your hand.
Speaker 1:You don't want to carry a mountain, Not in the waves.
Speaker 2:I don't.
Speaker 4:Ooh man, I'll go with y'all next time I got them.
Speaker 1:Once you break past the waves, it's not so bad. The only thing is you start thinking what the fuck is under me?
Speaker 2:Nothing.
Speaker 4:Nothing. It's going to be a long time before you touch the bottom.
Speaker 1:How were your weeks, shannon? Long time before you touch the bottom, how are you? Oh, sorry, my my week, uh, oh, yeah, that's good, is it? Yeah, I forgot I had an insurance claim. Oh, things, amen, should happen, life should happen. Soaked, soaked wood and shit like that. Pause, but whoa, whoa.
Speaker 3:Whoa, or is that a pause? No, no, it's not, it's not.
Speaker 4:Sometimes it's wet.
Speaker 3:Oh God. No, that's a pause, damn it.
Speaker 4:No, it's not. Sometimes it's wet. Yeah, I don't think that's a pause. How was your week? Huh, my week was rough, oh sorry. It really, really was rough mentally. It was a really rough mental week for me. I had a good therapy session yesterday. Dr williams she does what she do talk black to me, maybe, gave me some pointers and, uh, we got through it. Man, you know, tired as shit, but we here, ryan, don't stop shout out to dr williams.
Speaker 3:I feel like she's giving you on the job training, and then you just come and practice with me.
Speaker 2:So at any point where spades on the table she actually did mention spades.
Speaker 4:There was a spade reference.
Speaker 3:That's funny. You know what that means. She, she gets to know her people well, and that's the makings of a great therapist. So, yeah, shout out to Dr Williams. Yeah, well, gentlemen, I had a great week. I worked on my non-profit this week, so it is, did you work?
Speaker 4:on what I texted coming along, um yeah no, I don't think you did.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no, I heard you.
Speaker 4:I texted all three of y'all niggas. Mcfly didn't respond.
Speaker 3:I heard what you were, what you were saying.
Speaker 4:Well, I texted y'all three different things. I'm not gonna make it public.
Speaker 3:It was probably yeah no, it caught me off guard I, but I did hear where you were coming from and I I do think there was a lot of validity to what you were saying now are you puzzled?
Speaker 4:I'm trying to think it was like on tuesday, monday or tuesday I thought you said, like you're from baltimore, first on tuesday I'm trying to think yeah, well, we'll, we'll circle back to that, because I'm pretty sure I was dealing with some kid probably was busy I texted you something related to uh. Stop shrinking yourself in a room where you should be large oh yeah, but yeah, literally.
Speaker 2:At that time I was dealing with baby yeah so I read it and was like, oh and then, yeah, he like you gotta understand that kid, especially since they're on vacation. He is taking flight and, bitten, like I told you, he bit his sister in the face.
Speaker 4:In the face. Yeah, this week.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 4:On Monday oh, he ain't playing. He bought that life.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but that's a you got to damn man, he bought that life. How do I stop you, like, don't smile at me, like because he's so cute?
Speaker 4:it's like oh my, look here, phoenix has taken this, I'm on vacation. Because she knows, like I don't have school, I mean I don't have a bedtime. I mean I get my screens, that means I can go to bed. And she's been taking this shit to the max. I said, okay, look here, we're going to give you a bedtime, because you still have days when you got shit to do and we can't have you fighting us at noon because you don't want to wake up, because your ass went up to three in the morning, mm-hmm, yeah, because she had to go. Things like is it? What time is it? Is it 12? Yet it's 12 at one. I stay up all night. Okay, goodbye, aw, just go to bed.
Speaker 3:Trying to stay up. Okay, gentlemen, let's go ahead and get into these questions. So, as I mentioned, we are talking about friendships today. We're not going to shenan. We're not going to shenan Because if you let a nigga shenan once, what are you going to do, Maurice? I'm going to shenan.
Speaker 4:again, I'm trying to shenan again Every time.
Speaker 3:Let's get into these shenanigans. What does a fake friend look like to you?
Speaker 2:I'm gonna start with you, me, fly. What does a fake friend look like to me? They can look like anyone to me because I've had like what you brought up. I've been in many situations where I've had people I looked at like family, that I thought were closer to me than blood, just to turn out that they, like you pointed out, never liked me to begin with. They were just faking it.
Speaker 3:Don't they just blow your mind, Because it's like what are you here for? Like being here was a choice.
Speaker 2:It seems like after a while I kind of got to understanding. But it seems like it was kind of part of my journey to understand that you kind of got to come across those people to be able to decipher what is real and what ain't. Cause yeah, it would, it blows your mind. Cause you're thinking to yourself what the fuck Like? How did I not see that the whole time? But and you're telling yourself, nah, they wouldn't do that, that's, that's my people's and they were not at all.
Speaker 1:I, this side was a fake friend. Look like to you guys.
Speaker 2:I mean, like you said, it could be anyone, I don't know.
Speaker 3:I don't know how you tell until they deceive you.
Speaker 4:Yeah, no, seriously, I think. I think it's one of those things where, once you start to, when you step back and pay attention, that the relationship really is one-sided. Yeah yes that's when you start to see it. Yeah, yeah, it could be.
Speaker 1:It could be multi-sided too. It could be they, but they're they're. They're feeding you onto your negative qualities or anything you know, what I mean like oh, it feels like this is a good thing, but you're like you, ain't you only here for this, and wanting to do this Like. I guess it is one sided because it fulfills them but it fulfills a different part of you that you probably don't need to have fulfilled some of those times.
Speaker 4:I think you're speaking. I think you're speaking more to the fact that a lot of people, a lot of people, they like you the way you are. So when you, when you start to elevate it forces them to look at themselves.
Speaker 4:Yeah, you are. So when you, when you start to elevate it, it forces them to look at themselves. Yeah, and they don't like the. They don't. You know they probably because I'm pretty sure I've been in a situation where people thought they're better than me and as I start to get better, they're like well, why you want to do this, why you know I'm saying like yeah, so it's like I, I I do understand that there are people out there that keep certain people around just so they can feel better about themselves yeah, very, very true I've called it many a time on people.
Speaker 4:You know, like, so like, because they look at you as well. At least I'm not doing, at least I'm not that bad off. I mean, it's an asshole thing to do, but I do believe that there's people out there that do that I mean, yeah, I believe it, but I just don't get it.
Speaker 1:But I believe it.
Speaker 2:You know, don't get it, but I believe it. Uh, you know, verge, I'm gonna put his shit on front. But there was a guy that we knew he went to north and his dude came for money and he was one of those dudes he was, he was hispanic but he was whitewashed so he didn't think he was hispanic, so he would. He always kept money and he kept verge around as like some sort of weird thing to keep like a little power dynamic.
Speaker 2:So when he would go around, he'd be like and I used to tell her I was like nigga, that motherfucker's using you to make himself feel better, and the the dope thing about verge is he was able to acknowledge it and then start flipping it on him. So he was like, oh, this nigga pays for everything, so I'm about to use him. Yeah, so if he's trying to use me for some sort of I'm bigger, yeah, he just flipped it okay.
Speaker 1:Well then let's go ahead and get yeah six at him, yeah that's the last thing I told my wife.
Speaker 4:I said if somebody, if we got with somebody, offer you a drink, take that drink and slide that motherfucker over.
Speaker 2:Tell him, I just like it, man and the dope thing about verge is when he started realizing and acknowledging he and he ended up like it was one time I got into it with my dad back and I just need to get the fuck out the house. He was like, well, me and fuck it. His name is Ray. He was like we're going to go to the strip club. We're going to LA to the strip club. Just come with us. I said man, I ain't got no money. He's like Ray, so we end up going to the strip club, ray's paying for the lap dances and all this shit. And I'm like, damn, virg, ain't stupid. This motherfucker's using him for every single like. I was like, okay, respect, but at first I had to let him know like I saw that motherfucker Virg on on Wednesday it was Wednesday.
Speaker 4:I was like nigga, it's 10 o'clock, what are you doing? Still here? So goddamn, go home. What were you saying? I don't know who Virg or Ray is. Vir, you weren't still here.
Speaker 2:It worked. Yeah, so goddamn go home. What were you saying?
Speaker 3:They went to school. I don't know who Virg or Ray is.
Speaker 2:Virg would have been his year.
Speaker 3:And.
Speaker 2:Ray was 04.
Speaker 3:Oh, you're younger than us.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but he used to use money as a way of control.
Speaker 3:Yeah, there were like none of them, damn kids in school. So that's probably why I? Don't remember most of them. None, yeah, they're like none of them, damn kids in school. So that's probably why I don't remember most of them. None of them. I ain't like none of y'all. That's why I've been asking around. I don't remember you either.
Speaker 1:That's a motherfucking lie because they come up to me. She didn't say she don't remember them and that nigga was so racist.
Speaker 3:They remembered me. You ain't ask nobody.
Speaker 2:He was racist, nigga's racist. Damn, I'm fucked up because I remember using the proper context for a word I think it was like euphemism or something and he was like you use that correctly. I said nigga, what the fuck is that supposed to mean?
Speaker 3:oh, he had that like you speak so well. Yeah, like he had like that microaggression yeah, racism oh, I'm glad I don't remember his ass, because would you go fight him then I'm not gonna fight him, i'm'm not fighting anybody, but that would have pissed me off Talking to me like that. I don't like micro, what?
Speaker 3:was it like to you? I don't know Because, like I just said, I had the same friend for 20 years. Didn't even know that the girl did not like me Not one of them 20 years. I think I have PTSD from friends so I shy away from them. I don't have a lot of friends that I really will kick you in. I'll be with dominique.
Speaker 4:that's my girl and that's my girl I saw my girl on the stairmaster I said, okay, get it did you.
Speaker 3:Yeah, she told me you have been following her, um that you have followed her on her page. Um, yeah, I I don't engage with a lot of like friends like I consider the three of you friends, but I don't have no whole bunch of other ones because I don't trust nobody. Then why are you always busy? Because I have a non-profit and an actual job and I have this and, on a side note, my microphone smell like weed yes, the whole thing smells like.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was like damn, my plant's doing good.
Speaker 3:Then I was like nope, my hair also smells like this shit, yeah, anyway it went up, it went up in here. But yeah, so I'm still. I don't really desire to have a whole bunch of friends, so I really don't know like what, I can't help this shit.
Speaker 4:It sucks, but it is what it is yeah, are they friends or acquaintances there's.
Speaker 1:There's a mix, but I think I I've gained a lot, but I don't mean to say it sucks, because the people that are friends are friends and they're it's great. It just I attract a lot of people and then you gotta let shit play out.
Speaker 4:That's because you talk to everybody I'll be talking to niggas.
Speaker 1:I'll be sitting there sometimes and they're like, hey, what did I do to make you come?
Speaker 2:go stay. It's the smile, the welcoming smile.
Speaker 1:What am I supposed to do?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean even that's friendly.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm like, hey, what you doing.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's kind of what I do. I attract a lot of people that want to be friends. I just kind of let things play out.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I get people who change and I'm like, oh, I'm trying to force my frowns.
Speaker 2:Now the baby has made it hard. I smile more than I used to and I think people take it the wrong way. Nigga, I need the frowns to come back more to keep the fake shit away.
Speaker 1:Well, no, damn, this is a tough one. I think we could Go ahead. It goes along. The It'll probably all come out in this how you do that, because I feel like it's all All them niggas are going to be fake, they're going to be fake. I'd rather find out.
Speaker 3:You fake than just be like, that's factional. So, that being said, have you realized that someone was fake and it was maybe too late.
Speaker 1:You had already yeah, no, it's happened. Hell yeah, it's not too late, though. It's just that's part of life. Like fuck it. Hey, nigga, you deceived me yeah that's what it is.
Speaker 4:Hey, we had some good times in that, but I could see, from here on out there's no more like I think what I had to understand is that, um, I can't say that I necessarily had a bunch of fake friends. I just had to understand that I can't expect what I would get from other people.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's a big one, that's very true, so it's like.
Speaker 4:I don't think they were fake, they just the friendship wasn't at the level that I assumed it was, and so I just that's the one reason why I?
Speaker 1:just backed off, like I'm. For the most part I'm doing myself. I guess when I say fake is like, because I guess the way I am, there's nothing to guess. Like I put it out there and like whoa pause, pause every episode.
Speaker 3:Is that a pause? Y'all so crazy?
Speaker 1:I guess we talk about niggas, but like I, I leave it out there and like I don't, I I expect people to say or be the same way yeah and then if we're in a like conversation or anything where it's like this is a chance to be honest, this is how I really feel. And then if you, in turn, act as if that's how you really feel and then circumstance later shows how you really feel, it's like whoa, that ain't what the fuck you said to me.
Speaker 1:Like so what that was was fake. So it's like things like that, like I don't know. It's just like you don't know until shit plays out. Like you don't know until shit plays out. You know what I mean. Like you're like well, why, why did you do that? Like if you was just honest, this would have been easy.
Speaker 4:Like this doesn't even make sense I also think a lot of people assume what they would do in certain situations and they don't really know. Yeah, oh, hell yeah yeah, definitely.
Speaker 3:What about you? Have you found out somebody was fake and it was too late?
Speaker 2:you already engaged with that person um, it was my first rap partner, is the the story that came to mind? It was, uh, when I met him, we kind of had a mutual love for music and I thought he was like a best friend or whatever. And then as time went on, you would like you said, he kind of like preyed on my negative, like negative thing. So if I was doubtful, he kind of amplified the doubt. And, um, so as time went on, I would get to a point where I felt like, and he kind of preyed on the doubt, so anytime I would mess up or anything like that, he'd play into that and kind of make me be self-conscious about myself. And then it got to a point where when I started finally identifying, it was when I kind of I think it was when Tejor came around. Honestly, because, tejor, I brought him into the fold because we're trying to do music and Tejor was the polar opposite of him. So anytime he would try the negative shit. Tejor was like you dope, yeah, like don't listen, you dope. So after a while I started identifying shit and I was like this nigga always plays on a negative vibe, and this was right.
Speaker 2:After Tejor had passed, we were still working with each other and I started pointing out I'm like nigga. Tejor told me I was dope, so anytime, I was used to hearing that at that point. So I started identifying every time. I was like, hey, man, we should do this. And he'd be like nah, man, we should just stick to this. And you're like nah, nigga, I want to do this, like I want to take this, to find the part someone plays. You start saying, alright, nigga, you ain't the people I thought you were.
Speaker 1:This is where I leave you, yeah.
Speaker 2:And he'd beef with me. Diss me a few times.
Speaker 1:And that's cool, I go, that's fine, that's all.
Speaker 2:But I just had to see it.
Speaker 4:Chat DTP's right.
Speaker 3:Shout out to Tejor for being honest with you, tejor was the one person at that time that was like you dope.
Speaker 2:And he was like man, fuck what he talking about, you dope. And he would always say that shit and he'd always push that like fuck what that nigga's talking about, you dope. And he never let me allow that doubt when I, when he came around.
Speaker 4:I feel like that's something you don't learn till you get a friend like that. It's the friend that push you, that's really your friend yeah because a lot of times they're gonna say some shit to piss you off, but then when you sit back, man, this nigga was right like god damn it like you didn't piss me off, but you were right when I text you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, fuck off.
Speaker 3:I went through, I went through. I do have a short story to share that's pertaining to the question, but for you, I went through a range of emotions, okay. First, when you sent that damn text, first of all I was like I know he ain't fucking checking me today. Then I was like, oh my God, he's right.
Speaker 2:I didn't take that as a check.
Speaker 3:No, it wasn't a check. I'm a girl, so I'm going to go through a range of emotions, yours was different from theirs. Hold on real quick.
Speaker 4:Everyone got a message catered towards them.
Speaker 3:Oh, a message catered towards them. Oh, I knew it was specific towards me, because it was absolutely right.
Speaker 1:It was love, but I was like that's what I'm saying I went through a range of emotions and then I said he's like this, he likes me more than he says, I literally broke out crying.
Speaker 3:Then I had to put it together, then I had to smoke.
Speaker 4:I was fucked up for a little minute I knew you was fucked up because you kept you. I said this only thing.
Speaker 3:You're asking follow-up questions this nigga one of these, because at this point, where are we going with this?
Speaker 3:yeah I did. I had to know you. You were accurate, though you were really, really accurate. I think it's very because I don't have a lot of I haven't had a lot of friends. Let me, let me be transparent about me and friendships. What actually happens is I pick these bitches that I don't have a lot of, I haven't had a lot of friends. Let me be transparent about me and friendships. What actually happens is I pick these bitches that I don't need to be friends with and be friends with them hoes and it'd be like a whole host of positive ass black women that want to be friends with me, and I'd be like I don't know, should I be friends with them?
Speaker 2:And I should, because they're all dope women there's been a lot of trauma and that I be friends with them and and I should, because they're all dope women.
Speaker 3:There's been a lot of trauma. There's been that's really what it is. There's been a for, in particular, the friend I have. For 20 years we trauma bonded every bad, sad, horrible thing that could have ever happened in life. We went through it together. We've been friends since fifth grade, so everything horrible she's been there. So I was associating her with like everything that has happened. She's a part of that, so I need to stick close by her, have her back.
Speaker 3:The story that I'm going to share I had another friend and I had shared with her that I was starting to notice that the other friend was kind of like only fucking with me. It was real transactional, like really like what can I do for her type of a friendship? And it was hurting my feelings and I had been going through um a time where, like, all of my miscarriages were weighing on me tough, like tough, tough, tough. I normally like beast through them, but occasionally maybe tearing me up. So I was going through that time and the 20 year friend was pregnant and just had an abortion. This friend turns up pregnant and asked me if she could take the abortion pill at my house. Why the fuck would you think you can do that here. And her answer was well, you would do it for the other girl, so why are you not doing it for me?
Speaker 3:That's when I realized that I had a lot of people that were like Waiting to see what I was going to be able to, to prove to them what I could give them. Not, hey, let's be like there for each other, because I still tried to be there in the capacity to which I could, but I couldn't give you too much. You can't have a damn abortion at my house. My damn son is in here. We hide my miscarriages from him. So why would I let your abortion be out in the open with him in here? And why would you think I want to be a part of that? As much as that I'm going through.
Speaker 3:She stopped talking to me, ain't talked to me since, blocked me. I was actually friends with that particular girl's husband. I don't think he knows exactly the full conversation that her and I had, but he doesn't speak to me anymore. He still follows me, but he doesn't talk to me because it makes her uncomfortable. But that particular situation showed me that I had been over fucking doing my job in friendships and the minute I took a break from over doing my damn job. It was a problem for these hoes, so that's why I got friendship PTSD. I ain't wanna be friends with these bitches that's the thing the second you put boundaries.
Speaker 4:The people who are only with you for what they can gain, they don't like that shit. I get distant, real.
Speaker 3:They don't like that shit. Yeah, they definitely ain't fucking with us.
Speaker 2:You spot on. For that one I got distant. You see very clearly who's fucking with you and who's not.
Speaker 1:I think it's nuts, though when it's like I said no, that should be okay yeah.
Speaker 3:You're being allowed to say no, and the crazy part is I still tried to be help to her, so I said no, because you can't do it at my house.
Speaker 3:But if you go, somewhere else, like I'll show up and help you, I'll bring you food, I'll come in. You know, even though watching somebody have an abortion, I don't judge nobody, but I don't want to watch it. It's hard for me, I don't want to watch it. It's it's hard for me. I judge, I don't pass judgment. I don't know what circumstances in this particular girl's situation she would have. She had already had a baby and it almost um took her life. So I understood to a degree. But also you know that this is the narrative when you be fucking. And and why would you even put yourself in that? Damn you know. But but who am I to judge her? You know what I'm saying. I, I don't pass judgment on nobody. Do what you feel like is best for your body, but don't try to include me in it. That's it.
Speaker 4:The only thing I hate about when why?
Speaker 1:did I say no, leave me the fuck alone.
Speaker 3:Right.
Speaker 4:The only thing I hate about when my fly gets in this distance mode is everybody asks me what's wrong with Andy and I'll be like text that nigga. Oh, you can't, then you don't really matter yeah.
Speaker 3:No shut up Cause I don't know his phone number.
Speaker 4:Then you don't really matter. I said what I said. No, we're not doing that.
Speaker 2:We're not doing that.
Speaker 4:I said what I said yeah, you ain't shit, I'm not.
Speaker 3:I keep telling them that, kevin, they you hush, because I didn't know your number until my birthday you text me and I was like who is this? I don't need your numbers.
Speaker 2:I'm messing with you but I do like they do the same shit with me and you, so it's always the question of what's going on. It's like like you can, like he said, if you had access to him you would know. So if you don't have access, then guess what?
Speaker 3:you're not that important okay, so let's address when we're petty. Let's let's talk about when we're petty. What's the pettiest reason that you've ever cut somebody off? Because they cut me off what the most petty?
Speaker 2:what's petty?
Speaker 3:uh-uh, no, I felt. No, we. I know you could be petty jackson petty murphy, but I don't know.
Speaker 2:Uh, I get petty as fuck. I, my dad, raised me to be that way. Oh shit, the pettiest. No, I'm not, I'm not going there.
Speaker 4:This is a safe place. You're safe here. Now. The internet's not safe.
Speaker 2:I was gonna say we're safe for now the pettiest moment I've had recently was probably with my brother when he tried to buy my dad's car off you, oh no. I upped the price, so I know you probably say no yeah, yeah he said no, didn't he he? Said no, he never. He never texted back.
Speaker 4:I'll fuck with my brother so clearly, clearly, I mean, we can make it. So I told, I told my mom, you know, my mom, she's getting older, she can't really do for herself. And you know, kevin inspired me because his mom says she can't really do for herself. And you know, kevin inspired me because his mom says, well, he's just a good son. I'm not that. So I told my mom, I said you know what you can move in, but you got to give me your whole SSI check. Oh my God. She was like can't give you the whole check? I gave you maybe. I said nah. I said loads, I could do with 820. He just heard of it, nah, 820 who?
Speaker 2:my mom, your mom?
Speaker 4:yeah, not my mom. Damn, they're 820. But I want the I 100, but I'll settle for 820 you beat me now.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't think anyone is pettier than that. Um, do you have anything, kevin? I'm never petty, so I don't have this problem.
Speaker 1:I'm covering all her expenses see, I'm petty in other situations, but not that shit like what's another ride? I don't know. I'll just do little petty shit for no reason just because huh, yeah, like malicious compliance is how I I'm petty I'm what niggas like that at work yeah, oh, you want me to do that okay some favors.
Speaker 2:I never forget I was like, oh, when you, oh, boy, when I get the opportunity yeah, I'm never petty.
Speaker 3:I'm petty with my wife, are you never petty?
Speaker 1:ever. I'm not never petty, I'm petty with my wife, are you really Never petty?
Speaker 3:I'm not never petty. I'm petty with my wife.
Speaker 1:I have a really hard time believing.
Speaker 3:Even hard, as you want to with your time Pause. I'm not petty, I don't do petty shit Because, no, I don't you petty with your wife. You said, yeah, leave my friend alone.
Speaker 1:I mean that happens you petty with your wife?
Speaker 3:you said yeah leave my friend alone. I mean, that happens, that's.
Speaker 4:I do. I do the thing where, like when she has something I want to eat but she don't want but she was saving the flavor I hide it, and then she's like did you eat?
Speaker 2:that I'm like yeah, I ate it. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4:I think you want it, then I let her get mad at me and then once she's mad at me and we've gotten over it, then I go actually get in to eat it, because I've already done the time. So now I can eat it and we can talk about it.
Speaker 3:You are just. That's not petty, that's trifling.
Speaker 2:I had a nigga moment the other day.
Speaker 4:What'd you say?
Speaker 2:I was driving down the Minigoni by my house and I glanced over, I said in the street, and I realized it was a jordan and I almost stopped and ran in the middle of traffic to grab him well, no, you had a pair, it was a pair. One was in one lane and one was the other and I said, should I?
Speaker 4:hey, should I risk it you know, it was a trap nigga, that's. You know what happened. He pissed her off yeah, yeah, no they look clean too.
Speaker 1:I was like shit I was like that was a trap. Yeah, I said is there a homeless? Was Dez over here? She did it. Motherfuckers out the window. That was a trap, yeah.
Speaker 2:I said is there a homeless man in Dez's over here about to hand?
Speaker 1:him off, because I sure would have yeah, I mean niggas probably got hit falling for that trap.
Speaker 4:We got one Because they be doing 85-90 down the road.
Speaker 2:Hell yeah, they do Shit. Shit. A blue, yellow, whatever I said, these look clean.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's an angry moment I contemplated getting out.
Speaker 2:I said shit. I said they're probably not even my size. Speaking of petty, you could have sold them man yeah, but what if they weren't what I was? What if they weren't?
Speaker 1:Jordans. Oh, maybe that's why they threw them out. They're from Taiwan.
Speaker 2:They're Jorkins and I'm over risking my life for Jorkins.
Speaker 3:Not they from Tyrone.
Speaker 2:That motherfucking jump man got a ponytail and they go like you know it's like.
Speaker 3:Oh my god.
Speaker 2:We were risking it for the biscuit.
Speaker 4:Air packs. He had a pair of air packs.
Speaker 2:I almost died today.
Speaker 3:What was your biggest?
Speaker 2:Wow, this friend is fake moment um biggest wow, wow doesn't have to be a friend that can have that wow moment no, you have it with anybody there was this time. There was uh in high school. I won't say the nigga's name, because you'll know him.
Speaker 3:Can you tell me after? Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2:So he spent about a day and a half Not even a day, it was. That morning he went around because, no, he had spent like a couple weeks trying to persuade this girl to take her to a dance I can't remember if it was a winter formal or a fucking prom so he was like, oh, and he finally got her to say yes. So she, that morning we all ran into him and he was like man, I fucked, I fucked behind the bleachers, we did this, this and this. And I'm like and then, like everyone's like, you did that, you did that, my nigga. He was like yeah, man, I fucked so fast forward to after school.
Speaker 2:And she I give her the most respect in the world she came straight up, like she didn't come at him like sideways, she just came straight up. So you're out here telling people you fuck me, huh. He was like I didn't say that shit. I said, nigga, we just all saw you bragging about it, though I never said anything like that on you, I wouldn't lie on you like that. She's like so you're out here telling people you fucked, huh. And he was like nah, nah, I never said that. I said this is the fakest shit I've ever seen Because he was standing on business this morning.
Speaker 3:I can't wait till this old you tell me when I did baby, what, and I looked.
Speaker 2:I said my like. I looked at her and I said, nigga, that is the fakest shit. And I respected her. I even told her I talked to her like recently. I said, hey, I know you probably don't remember this story, but I just wanted to commend you for how you because you didn't come at he, didn't. She didn't come at me wild, and she literally just came at me straight up, like so you saying this, huh, and he's. I didn't say that that wasn't me, okay, but yeah, that was the fakest mom I ever seen in my life and that's not a friend, that's just yeah. On some shit, I'm like nigga, I, I was standing right next to you yeah whatever, he was scared.
Speaker 2:Yeah, she likes you about to whoop his ass. She was going to, for sure, and he was like I can't the size comparison? She would have whooped his ass she's gonna go get Baby D.
Speaker 4:She didn't need.
Speaker 1:Baby D, that's what I'm trying to say she did not need Baby D. Yeah, that was a life lost right there if he would have got his ass whooped. I don't know. I think to be honest and that's a hard one is it was me actually who was the fake friend. Oh, oh, do tell that was it was with a chick and it was fucked up because it's like, oh, that's different, it is, but it's not because we were friends and shit. But then you know you're trying to fuck feelings and things.
Speaker 1:And then whatever, yeah well, yeah, and then I guess some nigga was she ended up being with somebody and then like I was all like all sad and shit, and then the nigga did something and like was away, and then I was all happy and then she pointed that out and I was like motherfucker, you're right, I am being fake as fuck like that. I was glad that we were friends enough to have that conversation, but that shit sucked because I was like, damn, that is kind of shitty. Like you're supposed to be there for somebody, like when things happen.
Speaker 4:So he was over there being a sideline. And I'm just like yeah, he was a sideline nigga. He was waiting to get called in the game I was one and didn't know it does that count so there was this girl.
Speaker 2:she was like really really into me. I was like 18 or 19 and, uh, she used to come to me to like parties and she was like really really throwing it at me hard, so, um, so at some point I called her up when I, uh, something was happening. It was a party happened. I hadn't talked to her in a couple of months. So I uh and I called and her fiance called me back and he was a military nigga and he was like so nigga, you out here calling my girl. I said, nah, man, I'm a high school friend, bro, we're just friends. But in my mind I'm like you didn't tell me shit about.
Speaker 1:Well, you was, uh, you was going to be Jody.
Speaker 2:Yeah, like call them. But, I remember in that moment I had to switch up real quick. I was like no, I'm some. Oh, so you went to school with her. I was like yeah, but in that moment I realized what was happening. I said did she even tell me shit?
Speaker 1:That's not a sideline. He was about to be Jody and just set up for the okie doke shall we you calling my baby? Vic or you was on a, she was on a break, alright that shit was.
Speaker 2:I just remember thinking, oh shit. I said, I'm never calling this chick again never again, it's probably wise.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't have an answer to this? I don't really have an answer to that either, but what he just said brings me to the next question. Have you ever been the fake friend?
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, there you go Boom.
Speaker 3:No.
Speaker 4:I don't think I have.
Speaker 3:I don't think I've ever been the Because.
Speaker 4:I've never associated myself with people for what I can get.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no, I don't think I've ever been the fake friend, but I will tell you this I've had bitches do shit to me and the shit I do back to them be.
Speaker 1:It'd be heavier than this motherfucker podcast, because baby the hard part to tell would be how do you know, unless?
Speaker 2:they let you know.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean. You don't know what their fulfillment is to them, or like they could be, like I don't know, it's a tough one like that's where I'm saying I wouldn't probably. I guess I would have not noticed that unless I was called out on that. You know what I mean. I don't know if I've been a fake friend.
Speaker 2:I fucked a friend up. I've never hit one.
Speaker 3:No, that's crazy, that's not fake.
Speaker 2:We fought. I was like six. I was an asshole. I slammed his head into the side of a TV.
Speaker 1:I felt bad afterwards. See, this same friend that I speak of punched me so I wouldn't drive because I was about to drive drunk somewhere. And he's like we're not going anywhere. And I was like, yeah, we're not going anywhere and I was like give me the keys. And I was like nigga. And I was like you right, okay, I appreciate it sometimes you need friends like that a punch saved me from drowning.
Speaker 2:Okay, hold on a punch saved me from drowning.
Speaker 1:Okay, hold on. A punch saved you from drowning is that what you said?
Speaker 2:yes, that's what he said do tail, yeah so I'm not a strong swimmer, especially at this time I wasn't. So we went to Bobby Bonds Park and we were playing in the pool and I jumped and I couldn't swim. So my friend uh I'm not gonna say his name because he, oh, like I said jamel, uh he saw me drowning so he went out to get me and I was like flailing like around that motherfucker said stop moving and I wouldn't. He just, yeah, one one quit. Just I went fucking stiff and he pulled me out and he was like sorry, I had to hit you, but you were flailing. So he punched me and I just went limp.
Speaker 1:He was the same age. Yeah Well he knew some shit yeah. He had been through some shit yeah that's what they tell you. Like hey, if they ain't listening, you just, you gotta, or they're gonna die, You're both gonna die. That Are they going to die.
Speaker 3:You're both going to die, that's yeah, shout out to him for not letting you die.
Speaker 1:I like that punch. Save my life, the punch saved my life.
Speaker 2:I didn't even get mad, I understood.
Speaker 1:I was like oh, we're going to die, that's like what's going to happen?
Speaker 4:You can't be mad, yeah.
Speaker 2:Okay, I said I was acting.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you're right. Well, yeah, I don't have any stories where I've been a fake friend and I normally don't do petty shit in my friendships. It be them damn relationships. I be doing the petty shit. Yeah, what well you should nevermind. I didn't do nothing petty to hayden's daddy go ahead, what's the next?
Speaker 1:but I had a.
Speaker 3:I had an ex-girlfriend and she had a secret relationship with her best friend behind my back and I found their secret checking account and I slept with the best friend to get the information, to get the money out the account. So it wasn't really petty, it was really just like I'm finna, get back on the get back how much money was it?
Speaker 1:Go ahead and bless my cash. That's also petty too.
Speaker 4:It was quite a bit, quite a bit. Yeah, that's well thought yeah. Go ahead and bless my cash, yeah, you should really use these stories on TikTok. I feel like I should, because that one was a dozy that's two stories on here that I would be invested hey, baby, you'd be like Reese, and Tease is gonna get you a movie like shit just don't end up on Tubi no, she got a movie they got that hold out for Netflix it's on Tubi, you gotta move off that shit. They making a movie on First Story.
Speaker 3:I can't wait to see it cause, baby, that shit had me on the edge, edge of my damn seat shout out to recently um, okay, so then?
Speaker 3:what red flags and friendships did you used to ignore, but now you like hell, nah, anytime it's one-sided absolutely absolutely like I don't do friendships where I have to, where I, if I'm always the one initiating conversation- okay, I'm a female, so I don't do do well, when other females come on too strong, like if you're too eager to be my friend, it makes me nervous. I'm not good with that. That's weird. Good, it's weird.
Speaker 2:Any time I pick up on someone trying to sway my personality, like so they're trying to get me to act differently than who I am Like. When I pick up on it quick and they be like, oh, you should do it, I'm like are you telling me it's a helpful thing or is it more of a like, a? I always felt like when I identified it, it was them not actually saying they accept me as a friend, but like they want me to be something else in order to be my friend.
Speaker 3:I get that. It's kind of like you cool, but if you did this you'd be cooler. Yeah, I get that, I've got, I've had that. I've had people do that to me too and I'd be like bitch no, I'm like they don't like me.
Speaker 4:For me, you should release those raps which ones all of them which raps?
Speaker 1:all of them. Kevin, you could tell them jokes. I see what. I see what's happening here please tell them jokes what jokes? All of them? Don't know. All of them, you're so funny. I used to be funny. Now I'm a nigga who sits on the backyard.
Speaker 3:And while we're telling people what we need from them, if I can get two vibe checks on Wednesday, that would be great. Even if I can just get a Wednesday and a.
Speaker 1:Thursday.
Speaker 3:Vibe checks.
Speaker 1:I wake up for the vibe check, but I digress check, but we but, but I digress you mean the dances, she's, she's referring to what we're doing, or the singing I mean, yeah, I'm, I said the dancing like I literally wake up for a vibe won't you? Won't you send some comments? What you vibe checking? Oh no, I comment on every last I know but you got a vibe. Check the vibe like hey you got a vibe.
Speaker 3:Check the vibe check yeah, and and I can. I'm like I love the boom. Okay, um, let's see. Do you believe in friendship? Expiration dates, hell?
Speaker 1:yeah, yeah, yeah, they just run the course excuse me bitch.
Speaker 4:I think, yeah, it's very common to outgrow people yes, there are expiration dates in friendships relationships.
Speaker 3:I got some cousinships, bitch, you're expired. We ain't in cousins no more. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, I just feel like some of them are on the course.
Speaker 3:I got an ex-daddy right now. You get what you get out of him.
Speaker 1:You have an ex this nigga.
Speaker 4:That's not real, this nigga Ex. It's not real, this nigga.
Speaker 3:Ex-nigga. I don't give a fuck. I got a few ex-siblings. Them niggas don't.
Speaker 2:I know about that.
Speaker 3:I'm going to fuck. Okay, as soon as you get to fucking with my piece and they don't feel peaceful, no more, I'm letting you know right now.
Speaker 2:I get very distant.
Speaker 4:Hold on. My daughter just did remind me. A couple weeks ago, when I went to my grandma's party, my daughter met her aunt for the first time. My baby's, my dad's youngest kid, maya, and I'm supposed to buy her. She's only like 20 so, but she's short, so she's short, so I think it's like I'm almost as tall as my auntie. I like this one. I said go in there, get her money. She got two jobs. Uh-uh, uh there and get her money. She got two jobs.
Speaker 3:Uh-uh, uh-uh.
Speaker 4:Get her money. I just made me think about that.
Speaker 3:She's cute.
Speaker 4:She's super, super cute. But I definitely have. I have cousins, man look here yeah, Cousins siblings. You can count on one hand how many cousins I've talked to.
Speaker 3:Swear to God, I got an ex-daddy.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I talked to all my brothers and sisters though. I talked to my brother Mike, he doing good.
Speaker 1:I don't take that as like a no Requirement. I guess, what's that? Just like I know niggas that I love to death, that we probably won't check in and treat each other. For like but it's not expired, it's on hold.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's not expired. I don't care about the check in. That shit had me rolling. We were out for 7 years and that nigga just called me. Maybe it's, but it's not expired, it's on hold. No, yeah, that's. Yeah, that's not expired.
Speaker 1:I don't care about the check in. That shit had me rolling like we were out for like seven years and that nigga just called me was like hey, I'm just calling, say what's up, see how you doing.
Speaker 4:I was like hey, man yeah but I don't know, I just I got, I got, like it's just understanding, we've grown, we got kids, we got family. Life is life and you know, hey, man, I'm thinking about you. Oh, I appreciate it, bro. You good, yeah, I'm good. You good, family good, all right, all right, I'll talk to you again in six years, yeah.
Speaker 1:No, I have people like that. Well, touch base again. You know, what Like I can tell if you give a fuck about what's going on or if you're just like bullshit.
Speaker 2:You know, what.
Speaker 4:I mean yeah, they just hit the rails already.
Speaker 1:What I don't know.
Speaker 4:Hold on Side note, this is on another episode. Yesterday my wife was like so what time do we have to be at Cabin for Fourth of July? I said who said we're going to Cabin for Fourth of July? I said wait how do you got? I said, are you?
Speaker 1:Amanda talking like what's
Speaker 4:going on here, listen no cause, we're here the 5th oh yeah that's it always happens.
Speaker 1:I'll bring a.
Speaker 3:I'll bring a blanket to sleep on the couch that's fine, we got. We got cots and shit too, yeah well, how the fuck do you just have content?
Speaker 4:but I'm like how are you making plans in somebody else's house?
Speaker 1:like who the fuck does this? That's, I mean, that's our fault, cause, like every Superbowl comes around, they're like so we coming to your house and I'm like Niners ain't in it, gang.
Speaker 2:But I guess, I'm not bad.
Speaker 4:It made me think about that. I was like are you making plans and you know?
Speaker 1:what's funny is Amanda was just talking about that. She was like they've been talking. She was like.
Speaker 4:No, I believe she might have been. They've been talking, kevin. She might have been cause.
Speaker 1:She was like I think we're having it at our house and I was like, well, have you told people? You probably said at our house, so they coming to our because?
Speaker 4:I was like she's like what's your plans? Before I said that I have no plans. I don't plan on cooking, I plan on doing shit like oh well, it's like are we going to campus.
Speaker 3:I was like nah before I go to the next question mcfly, did you have any red flags that you used to ignore, that you don't ignore anymore? But I answered did you answer it?
Speaker 2:yeah, the the the whole trying to yeah, change you change me, why not?
Speaker 3:yeah, that's right. Then, weird ass motherfuckers you.
Speaker 4:That is correct, yes, yes yes, that's right, and you forget to answer the end question I I just was exposed to a large amount of marijuana I am fighting for my life here are you fighting for your life as far as hunger, or just in the sense of both?
Speaker 3:the room is shrinking. You had to pay attention to the episode.
Speaker 2:I was over there like yeah, you were down when the smoke was going to her face.
Speaker 3:I was like, oh shit, I didn't even notice, but he's so nice and he looks so comfortable and I just wanted him to be comfortable. He low-key reminded me of my brother. He's so chill and I just wanted him to be comfortable.
Speaker 1:I just thought I saw how nice he was, because when he noticed it he went oh shit yeah.
Speaker 3:And then tried to fan it. I got you girl. Sir, I'm already high, but thank you. See how sweet gentlemen. So how does social media make your fake friendships easier to hide, Hide?
Speaker 2:Hide or expose.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's the way you spot it, baby.
Speaker 3:I think you're spotting it. Yeah, the question is hide, but I definitely think that's how you figure it, the fuck out.
Speaker 1:Oh, this is how you really feel.
Speaker 3:Huh, that's how you figure it the fuck out. Oh, this is how you really feel, huh that? And when I sit back and I think about, like some of the shit I done, let slide, I let some of these bitches slide. These hoes thought they was ice skating and that's really what didn't happen. The friend for the 20 years. Every time that tramp got another friend, that bitch did not like me. Her new friends never liked me. You are talking about me with these bitches Damn.
Speaker 3:I wasn't expecting that shit, get the shit out of me. I just told you I'm fighting for my life and you're going to sit over here.
Speaker 2:I said what the fuck just happened. But it's the truth.
Speaker 3:Every time she had several friends and she would meet these girls and they would never. She would never unite us. We could never go out and have girls day or lunch or anything like that. She didn't want them bitches around me.
Speaker 3:It's because she was talking about me that makes, that makes sense yeah, baby, now that I'm older and I'm like starting to see things, I'm like what the hell? Because she could come around, all my friends, because we ain't dogging you on this side, but you dogging me over here. So, yeah, no, definitely social media tell you everything you need to know, baby.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you can't, you really can't cheat no more, because social media you gotta get your old woman shit I facebook I don't yeah I think this is a bit of a tangent, but I said this to somebody one time, his friend of mine. We were chilling and he came by the house and we were just kicking it. But it was like I forgot who I talked to and I was like, yeah, that's probably like the last time I'll talk to him. He's like, well, what the fuck you mean?
Speaker 1:I was like, I mean you could kind of tell sometimes when you sit down with somebody and you're like, yeah, this ain't I'm out, yeah it's over like it wasn't anything bad, but it was just like, and it probably felt like it was like a mutual thing cause, like after that it was like neither one of us gave a fuck, like we didn't try to check and see what was what it was just it, just kinda you knew and like I don't know. I just I thought about that right now.
Speaker 4:I think that goes a long line of like. I think that's just like male friendships at all. I was like we don't? We just kinda like you find somebody, you guys kind of like have similar hobbies, or you meet you at the same place every day and then you slowly start talking and then you hang out and then you just get to the point where, like no, this ain't what I thought it was gonna be. And then you just kind of you just kind of walk away. It ain't no, it ain't been no fighting or nothing like it's just you ain't gotta explain what's understood, like yeah, women's friendships are so catty, y'all be going through like you literally have to.
Speaker 3:You have to be equally yoked with your female friends, like you are with your spouse, like that sounds like too much work and it's the truth, though, your female friends kind of have to be like if you're sure of yourself, you need to be friends with bitches that sure of they self, because if you're not friends with bitches that are sure, they said I've had like other. You guys see, I wear whatever fuck I want to put on.
Speaker 4:I've had women we talked to you about it and I don't give a fucking.
Speaker 3:I'm a key and I'll talk to you about what. You got old too, thank you very much. But I've had women be like oh are you sure you want to wear that as a bigger girl? Because they want to minimize me, because I step in the room so goddamn big, and when you have to, I have to have friends that are as big as me.
Speaker 4:And I, yes, I do, yeah, Personality.
Speaker 3:I'm not talking about plus size wise, but if plus size bitches want to be friends, I'm here for it.
Speaker 2:She's talking about, but I'm talking about personality.
Speaker 3:I have to have friends that step in a room as big as I do Like.
Speaker 2:I have a friend and she's a small girl.
Speaker 3:I can say her name on. Her name's marshay. Marshay's a model she step in the room as big as I do shout out to my baby, she steps in the room as big as I do. It's easy for us to be friends because she's not competing with me, I'm not competing with her. We elevate each other. You get what I'm saying, yeah what I'm on record as saying.
Speaker 4:I have no problem picking that stomach up and going to work.
Speaker 3:Look here. Okay, I'd be so tired of you.
Speaker 4:That's what I meant, though, by friends there. I told my wife that stomach ain't stopping nothing.
Speaker 3:And it's probably the same thing with you being a rapper. You know what I'm saying. You have to have people that are as confident in their music, as strong in their lyrical ability as you are, because otherwise they're just're just gonna fucking hate on you.
Speaker 2:That's the most of the scene.
Speaker 3:When you like, you do what I'm saying though like if they can't do what you do, they just gonna find a reason to hate on you and suddenly you're.
Speaker 2:They don't want to work with you for some reason or somewhere.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you, yeah yeah, no, I, that's what I mean. We're gonna start a new rap rapper.
Speaker 4:I'm gonna be the first Chad GTV rapper.
Speaker 2:I don't know if you're the first. You're not.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't think You're going to be the first one to say it out loud. We'll say that You'll be the first one to say it out loud, you'll be the first one that gives credits.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:She's not my only friend like that, all my are. Like that. They they're sure of themselves women's friendships are so catty and so competitive that you kind of have to be equally yoked in my opinion.
Speaker 4:Okay, I don't think guys we like that. No, you're not. That's why most of my friends are male okay well, I mean, yeah, you gotta, we understand yeah, no, I get that.
Speaker 3:That's why most of my friends friends if I got a friend.
Speaker 4:You told me hey, man, you didn't call me today. Nigga I'm now. I'm never calling you what did you say?
Speaker 1:if they ask why, you know like now, I'm never calling yeah, no, I get it what kind of sensitive? Shit is this yeah they
Speaker 2:call you an ex up, they call me hold on hold on, hang on real quick, let me text you this shit.
Speaker 3:No, don't do that so look, if you could put a warning label on fake friends, what would you say?
Speaker 2:that warning label should say like a warning level as far as to stay away from you uh-huh, like if you could put it on that fake friend.
Speaker 3:So, for example, if I could put a warning label on a fake friend, I think it would say um caution, this person won't allow you to protect your peace yeah, I like that one, oh mine would just say uh, I'm not who I say straight to the motherfucking point.
Speaker 1:Nigga, I lie give it six months, then I'll let you know who. I am like damn nigga like why let's just get that shit out the way. I could have saved a lot of time on gas and shit.
Speaker 4:Yeah, shit I agree with all that that's so funny, mcfly.
Speaker 2:I think the only thing I can think of is like the one I see. I think the only thing I can think of is like the one I see. Quite frankly, growing up was, I think.
Speaker 3:Maurice pointed out was the warning friend is cool with you as long as you don't surpass them, which is so weird. Like I like to see my friends at any level. If you're elevated and you're above me, great. Like you might have some tips to help me get there. If I'm elevated, great, I'm going to reach down and grab you. Like I don't understand it, like it's so crazy to me that people think that way. Like hell you don't want somebody as good as you are better.
Speaker 4:I don't know if this is shallow with me, but like I'm at the point now where I only want friends that are doing better to me.
Speaker 3:And that. But that makes sense. That makes sense. I'm trying to learn, you're going to learn, I'm not trying to take your shine.
Speaker 4:I'm just trying to observe what you do and apply it to my life.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no.
Speaker 4:I don't guarantee it's working for you, but this is what's working for me.
Speaker 3:You know, I get that. We have two more questions. Guys, so describe a fake friend only using a movie title.
Speaker 2:Foolish that's my favorite movie, too, is it.
Speaker 4:My grandma gave me that goddamn right.
Speaker 3:I'm laughing at my answer. What's your answer?
Speaker 1:is it like a current movie any? Movie the secret life of Walter Mitty, these lying ass niggas.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna go with liar, liar don't be a minister society while drinking your juice in the hood I said do we?
Speaker 3:have a problem message. Last question what do you think the fake friends catchphrase is like? What are these? What's the line that these motherfuckers all say?
Speaker 2:he doing too good. I don't like that shit.
Speaker 3:I feel like because they want to hide who they are, they say things like don't worry, I got you. You don't think they even had that. I've had that. I've had that so many times from a fake friend what?
Speaker 2:no, I normally get the. It's usually the ignoring on purpose shit that's crazy as hell.
Speaker 3:Yeah, we're too big for that. Like with a big grown age, you ignore niggas and they do, they double back.
Speaker 2:I see you got a podcast.
Speaker 3:Oh yes, I've gotten that a lot and it's strange, like people who didn't like me in high school. Oh my gosh, where can I come on the podcast? For what? What do you do? I'd be like ask McFly.
Speaker 4:Please refer to no, um, let me see, I would probably say like, uh, um, like McFly said, they they either avoid it or they try to, or they try to belittle what you do, mhm yeah like oh yeah, that little podcast.
Speaker 3:Yeah, don't minimize my shit.
Speaker 4:Like oh, so I see you lost a little weight. Somebody said you lost a little weight. Yeah, I see you lost. I see you lost a little weight. Somebody said you lost a little weight yeah, I see you lost. I see you getting a little in shape.
Speaker 3:I'm trying you at the littles, yeah you and your wife out here killing the game we had that but I forgot what it was.
Speaker 1:But it was family like and they didn't, it wasn't to me, but they said something and we all was like damn why you got shit on nigga like that, it's like oh, I didn't mean it like that, my bad, but um, but you know, when they yeah, oh no, you could definitely tell.
Speaker 4:You could definitely tell you're like that's a little salty, that's weird it's funny cause I've had people mention like oh, I see you doing a podcast. Oh, okay, cool, you see the podcast you don't share it? But then you be in my inbox. Hey man, what are you using for? And I and I look at it and I'm like red.
Speaker 3:No reply yeah, no, yeah, that that happens to me a lot too absolutely no support. But then you want to ask questions or you want to be on. I get that a lot too is it a catchphrase.
Speaker 1:You said what's the?
Speaker 3:yeah, what, what do you think? Like, the, the um, fake friends like catchphrase, is Something that all of them is saying.
Speaker 2:Here you go, suck a mean brother.
Speaker 1:The slogan.
Speaker 4:How much for one rib, I don't know.
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's kind of hard to answer that because the fake friend comes in so many different forms. Got him, they say everything.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they will kind of hard to answer that because the fake friend comes in so many different forms, got it. They say everything.
Speaker 3:Yeah, they will say any and everything.
Speaker 1:But they never take accountability and never say sorry.
Speaker 3:Oh, never, never, never, never. I literally had my 20-year friend tell me that I was a fake friend to her. I gave that half a car so she can get back to my house anytime she needed to while I was at work.
Speaker 4:I need a car.
Speaker 3:I'm not going to give you a car. I did things for her I would never do for nobody else, ever again. She fucked it up for everybody.
Speaker 4:That sucks. Yeah, that's unfortunate. I'm a good guy too. Yeah, you are, I'm a good guy you are.
Speaker 3:I'm a good guy you are and one day when. I'm financially abundant. I'm a bless your cash. I know this has been another excellent episode.
Speaker 2:I'm a fun guy of the heavyweight podcast.
Speaker 3:Make sure you like, subscribe, share all of that shit in the words of Maurice. Comment everything we appreciate, you watching everybody, peace that's a wrap, y'all.
Speaker 1:That's that's how she wrote, so make sure you click like subscribe. Tune in we on austrian platform. So until next time we'll holla at you.
