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Episode 197 of The Heavyweight Podcast brings you a fearless, no-holds-barred roundtable with Des the Diva, Moelethal, Kevin Ellis, and McFly, diving into taboo topics that most shows wouldn’t dare touch.
From the vital role of Black fatherhood to the complexities of masculine and feminine energy in modern relationships, the crew delivers raw truth, sharp insight, and plenty of laughter. As Kevin puts it: "Being a man, being a father, being a husband—you're going to put those you love before you."
The conversation turns up the heat as they unpack the double standards around bisexuality, acknowledging their own growth and biases. Des gets real about evolving beyond past ignorance, opening the door for a powerful conversation about acceptance, vulnerability, and the judgment bisexual men face in dating.
This isn’t just barbershop talk—this is what happens when real people confront real issues with honesty and zero performative fluff.
💬 Relationships.
💬 Gender roles.
💬 Fatherhood.
💬 Sexuality.
Nothing is off-limits.
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Speaker 2:The message behind saying the title of the Heavyweight Podcast is to be able to say that we can weigh in on some heavy shit. What we're talking about is important from every aspect of it. It's a heavy weight. It's not just about physical weight, but the weight of things that can weigh our minds. So I think it's dope that we can have this conversation.
Speaker 1:You said, you said you a smoking wing, wings, smoking wings.
Speaker 3:Oh, I was gonna say game banging yeah, that's why I stopped, because we can't talk about smoky.
Speaker 4:Oh, that's right I said damn smoky bitches too. No, he not, and it was recent.
Speaker 1:That's the shitty part is it was recent.
Speaker 4:They said they never had to take no pussy from nobody maybe in 2024.
Speaker 1:They said the house staff, yeah, the house staff.
Speaker 4:They said he was gonna give smokers a pussy every time smoky ass was supposed to put now listen I usually don't, don't, uh not them guatemalas.
Speaker 1:They said he was in there telling them you won't get your freedom, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4:He got dementia. He old that's gonna be his out. I don't remember he might got dementia, make him trip.
Speaker 2:Make him trip and that can break a hip.
Speaker 4:Oh smoke.
Speaker 1:Oh, smoke breaking them. He did put that at Gasm's that last album, that little album yeah, Still talking about fucking.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but with his wife.
Speaker 1:Nah, he was talking about the staff.
Speaker 4:What's up everybody? It's your girl, dez the Diva, back with episode 197 of the Heavyweight Podcast. I am back this week with these amazing gentlemen. Introduce yourselves.
Speaker 3:It's your boy, molito.
Speaker 1:She said amazing. So y'all go ahead, shush, y'all go ahead, I'm being modest. Kevin Ellis. Kevin Ellis, wendell Ellis Jr.
Speaker 2:And I'm a hell of a time the guy they call McFly.
Speaker 4:Okay, hell of a time, I like that.
Speaker 3:I like that, but that's on a shirt.
Speaker 4:Okay, hell, yeah, the whole sentence. Hell of a guy, the guy they call McFly.
Speaker 3:I'm about to write this On a software. Hell of a time. Follow At Something.
Speaker 1:The whole hootenanny.
Speaker 4:We're back with episode 197. These questions were cultivated by you guys, the fans. These are the questions that I took from the internet that you guys all sent in, so we're gonna go with those today. You ain't got the jar today. I don't have the jar today, guys. I'm sorry. I will have the jar next time cause apparently people like the jar. I was actually told the jar was kinda cool. People liked it because they didn't know what order I was gonna ask the questions again.
Speaker 3:So people kind of like they don't know if you I'm gonna, I'm gonna we don't have the jar today, but she has a jar app on her phone and it's gonna randomly select the question next time she should bring her backpack and then pull them out.
Speaker 4:Listen we can do a whole episode and I can just display what's in the backpack so I can get people ready.
Speaker 2:I'm all for it. I'm all for it.
Speaker 4:I might help spice up your life.
Speaker 1:I don't want that spice.
Speaker 4:I'm going to just go with this first question because it was actually directed towards me and I was also asked this by Molito today, in so many words, and I've been asked this a million times. But I was asked what my skincare regimen was. I didn't say that shit at all he did. He was like girl, what kind of moisturizer did you use? Today?
Speaker 1:I was like, listen, molito, time out let's just start with a question directed only yeah, yeah because the next question is directed only at y'all.
Speaker 4:I don't know the damn answer to the next question. I guess this is I like it.
Speaker 3:I like it so what's your?
Speaker 1:you're gonna answer the question.
Speaker 4:Right now I'm using the good molecules collection. It changes per season, so that's the answer.
Speaker 1:What's that? Because we're not. Never mind.
Speaker 4:I could tell you the good molecules collection it's, it's uh, that's the answer. What's that cause? We're not, nevermind. I can tell you the Good Molecules collection it's. That's the name of the brand okay, is it black on probably not, but I do use. I use butter skin in the winter and that one is actually black on because it's butter, skin, butter, skin, butter with an A skin by.
Speaker 1:Yeah is it with a T butter?
Speaker 4:butter by dorian. Yeah, it's what a it's two t's not butter, it's like.
Speaker 2:It's like the same stutter yeah, butter okay exactly, I'm just making sure I like that period.
Speaker 1:There was butter, love, and that was two d's right but yes, I switch it up depending on the season so that's what that is.
Speaker 3:I will post.
Speaker 1:You switch it up like you switched that backpack up because my mind was in the gutter when you said molecules and I was like that sounds like semen.
Speaker 4:Oh, they say it makes you glow because if my man won't, okay, so listen, I will post my skincare regimen for the ladies that want to know. The next question, and I guess I could answer this, but I think this person wanted to hear mainly from the three of you. They want to know what do you think the importance of having a black father in the home? Is Somebody?
Speaker 1:Black father. I feel like in the home period, a is important, like just in general. Uh, in the community of black it's more, needs to be more prevalent, just because we've been taken out by so many different other factors than ourselves. So it's harder to have that dynamic in that home when you have enough Outside forces fighting against you anyway. So the importance is even more than normal if you, if you want. So yeah, I mean it's extremely important. I don't know what else to say. Like the dad in the home kind of is the balance that's missing in a lot of homes right now.
Speaker 3:Just in general I agree um, having a father in the home was important for both. Uh, regardless whether you have boys or girls, for um, if you have daughters having a father around it, um, it teaches them. Well, if you have boys or girls, for um, you have daughters having a father around, um, it teaches them while you have a good father around.
Speaker 3:I can say it teaches them what to look for in a, in a partner, and makes them feel protected.
Speaker 3:Um, I mean, studies have shown that, um, little girls who are raised with their father in life do you seem to be more confident.
Speaker 3:Um, and they feel safer, safe, um, and they feel safe at home. For little boys, having your dad around teaches you how to regulate and process your emotions, to understand that, as a man, this life is unforgiving and they don't care what you're going through. I tell my daughters every day I said you wake up every day where responsibilities, whether you you want them or not, and you, you have to put those responsibilities above, um, your wants, because you have to understand, especially as a man, that, uh, life is not going to always be about you, and but you have to understand that when being a man, being a father, being a husband, whatever the case may be, oftentimes you're going to put those you love before you. So that's something that little boys need to be taught that, as a man, your know your word matters, you have to live up to your word and you have to take care of your responsibilities, because your actions are who you are.
Speaker 4:I dig that.
Speaker 2:For me growing up, it was just me and my dad.
Speaker 2:So I saw how extremely beneficial and important it was for me to grow up with my father and then for the bigger picture of it was that I saw a lot of my childhood friends grow up without their fathers.
Speaker 2:So I saw the significance in my childhood with my dad around and the childhood of my friends around, with my dad around and the childhood of my friends around and sometimes it was you would get a little bit of resentment or bitterness from other people because of it. So when I look at it and the sight of it, it's extremely important. It's even more specifically for Black men and Black children growing up is that we need to have a better representation of us being in the home because, like Kevin pointed out, there is a big Factor at play where we're not necessarily have the advantage of just being able to be home or be in the home or be in the home. So, uh, yeah, it's extremely important, uh, for us as a, as a black people, to have that image of us being black fathers at home and, um, even as just fathers in general, it is extremely important for us to be present and, um, that's the. I think everything else has already been said.
Speaker 1:I just yeah yeah, I just want to. I think the father in the home too. It's going to sound odd, but I think it makes it a little less aggressive of a way to raising, like, say, you have a boys, like it's, it's better to have the man in that, because with women, at some point those boys are going to become men, so she's going to have to be more aggressive in order to get him to have that fear or whatever. Yeah, so it's like they're missing out on the soft side of what they're supposed to have. They're supposed to have a balance. You're supposed to have that. Okay, I have that. So it's like having just one in the house kind of messes it up in that regard. But having the father, like you said, it's like your dad doesn't have to be as aggressive as a woman would have to be. Yes, you get what I mean. It's like I don't have to be as aggressive as a woman would have to be.
Speaker 4:Yes.
Speaker 1:You get what I mean. Like it's like. I don't have to like I know you already know what's what like with a mom. It's.
Speaker 3:But I felt like both both sides is needed.
Speaker 4:No, yeah, yeah, yeah I 100% agree.
Speaker 3:You know what I'm saying, cause you get the nourishment Definitely. And it's not that. It's not that they don't both love you, they just both love you differently.
Speaker 4:Yeah, yeah, essentially, I think having a black father in the home is good for the entire family unit because that's exactly where my mind went the woman does get to be in her feminine role, in her nurturing role as a mom, when the dad is there.
Speaker 4:So I think it's good for the entire family unit.
Speaker 4:I know I didn't grow up with a dad in the home and I felt like until recently, when I started to go on my healing journey, that I had a hole in my heart, like I felt like there was a piece of me missing without having my dad in the home.
Speaker 4:So I think, had he been there, I probably and I've said this on past podcasts that I probably wouldn't have chosen the partners that I chose past podcast that I probably wouldn't have chosen the partners that I chose.
Speaker 4:I'm sure I wouldn't have chosen the partners that I chose because in hindsight, looking back, I think I was either choosing partners that needed me and wouldn't leave, or I was choosing partners that mimicked him in some way. So I think the quality of the dad also plays a part, because in that state that he's in as a father and Laura, I know I talk about him and I probably sound like a bad daughter, and I don't mean no harm, but him in that version of him in the home with me would not have sufficed for as the same as a good father in the home, because he was in the home with two of my siblings and I do see how they um, I although I think they're both great humans, both of my siblings are amazing, but they, they had to grow to be that way on their own, so I, I, yeah, it's not only just the father per se, it's also the quality of the dad.
Speaker 3:I think I approach it as like, as a father. No matter whether I'm good or bad, I'm an example. I'm either going to be the example of what she's going to look for or the example of what she's going to run from.
Speaker 4:Absolutely, absolutely.
Speaker 3:So I try to be the example. Show her what to look for and not what to run from.
Speaker 4:Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. I agree, you guys. Yeah, you know anything else, andy? No, okay, so the next question.
Speaker 3:His name is, for a good time, mcfly.
Speaker 4:McFly.
Speaker 2:She's telling my government to be sweet.
Speaker 4:Sorry, I don't know why I'm calling you that today, because even in conversation, when you're not there, I still don't call you that my bad won't happen again. Um, this next question. The next question is how do men want women to be in their feminine air, and a lot of niggas are in their feminine air I can't answer this question I don't know how to answer that I mean what?
Speaker 1:how do you?
Speaker 4:it's not the three of y'all, but there's lots of men that are very much in their feminine air.
Speaker 3:They very much what are they doing to make them?
Speaker 4:yeah, they want you, they damn. They want you to send them flowers, shit. They want you to treat them delicately and I think, uh, yeah, that you don't think these niggas is feminine out here I don't know all these niggas.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't know these niggas. Is there?
Speaker 2:is there a bruna marge singing this to them?
Speaker 1:I have my uh my whole little in touch with my femininity and you know what?
Speaker 4:yes, in your, in your femininity. But I think that if we've, I think what she's asking, because I know her I think what she's asking is like, men have shied away and some men not all, let me not put y'all all in the same box but some men have shied away from being that masculine man. For women to be able to thrive in their feminine energy, because they are in their feminine energy, you damn near need to open the door for these niggas. They damn near want you to send them flowers outside of a joking way. A lot of times and this is just, maybe it's just me projecting what I go through, but again, I know this woman who asked the question but a lot of times, like when women are left to figure out the things that normally men would, men would come in and figure out I think that is the um stuff.
Speaker 3:I think that's their direct response of these trigger words that were created online, like toxic masculinity.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1:Feminism. Yeah, it's tough, it's like.
Speaker 4:No, no, no. These niggas is out here soft.
Speaker 2:I mean, I'll kill a spider for you Then again no, not kill a spider nigga.
Speaker 3:But what I'm saying is is that there was a time and time, and still a little bit today, where masculine, masculine was considered to be toxic, when, when a man would not necessarily I don't want to say assert himself, would be, be direct in his words and his actions and stand his ground, it was not taken. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't. It wasn't taken correctly, like like people women were, would be offended if he, if he came on too strong or if he, if he felt too certain way or if he made hard lines and stuff like that, right you, it would. There was pushback there. So I feel like a lot of men just kind of ease back, because I do feel like there was. I'm not saying this, I'm not saying this like what we did.
Speaker 1:I'm saying I do feel like there's men out there they kind of like, okay, well, they adapted to what the times were, from what they were hearing on, because no people hear shit online and they roll with it and they they dictate their personality, how they move based off that that's the error I think, is I actually it could be that too, but I feel like part of it and it's fucked up because, like, there's a lot of still learning each other, because everything's not that long ago, even like just women's rights, all that stuff, yeah, so then you, like you said, you had men that were being masculine and all this stuff and then but but I think a lot of men fucked it up and where did you think they fucked it up back?
Speaker 1:that's the same place as being overly, overly, uh, aggressive, because you get all of this stuff out of. That's where toxic masculinity comes from. Like you get this me too. Shit isn't all fake, so all that shit just went unchecked. You know what I'm saying yeah, so then it's like now that it's in check, it's like the overcorrection happened, so it's like an overcorrection ah so it's. I still think we're in a weird space where it's like trying to figure that out that's a good ass, it's like I I think part of the problem is, how do they say nuanced?
Speaker 1:yeah, I think I think part of the problem men were trying.
Speaker 3:They say nuanced, yeah, like it's, I think. I think part of the problem men were trying to be masculine in spaces. They didn't need to be, because a lot of times they they, a lot of men think they're masculine. They're not. They think because they put, they talk loud, they puff their chest out, that makes them master.
Speaker 3:That's not because a lot of times, um, you can tell who the real you. You know y'all want to go this whole alphabetic. Then you can tell who the real Alpha is, because Alpha ain't saying much. Alpha don't? Brother, it don't matter what the it could be. It could be in a marriage, in a friendship, in a, in a family setting. Alpha don't have to move a lot to get you to move the way you need to move right.
Speaker 3:But at the same time, like my, actually it's funny because my wife actually said this to me yesterday. She came across the video and it's like yeah, uh, then the one was pretty much saying like, yeah, women want, like she's basically saying, yeah, I want my husband to leave, but he, he doesn't have to be so direct, right, and my response to that was like, see, and that's the problem, like, because we can say something, a lot of times when I say something, I'm not gonna speak for me, I'm talking to. A lot of times, when I say something, I'm not going to speak for me, I'm talking to me. A lot of times when I say something, I say it directly. Mcfly, I don't sugarcoat you, I say it directly.
Speaker 3:And when I'm saying it, I'm not saying it to hurt your feelings. I'm just telling this is what, this is what I need from you, right, and a lot of times and my wife needs to understand that I'm not I don't always take how you're going to receive it or how your feelings will be affected by what I say or by what I say or how I say what I say, so that to me, that's where the impasse is Right. So it's not that I don't think that a lot of women are against being led. I think it's their. Their issue is how the leadership is displayed Right.
Speaker 3:So they don't want to be directed to do things they want they. They, like I said. I said so what you're telling me is that you want me to phrase things as a, as a suggestion, so that you feel like you're making the decision, even though I'm telling you what to do. And I think that's where the issue was, because I think a lot of men think that masculinity is like no, I'm the man, you do what I say.
Speaker 3:Yes that's not masculinity, that's just you being a dictatorship. Because just because you're the man and you make the decision doesn't mean always mean you make the right decisions Right, because we're not going to talk about the leadership. The leadership masculinity is two different things.
Speaker 4:Yes, it is.
Speaker 3:Because you can be masculine and be a terrible leader. Yes, you can you know I'm saying so, but I I do think that kevin said like I do think that it is over correction and I do think that it got. We got to a point where some men just just fell back and so I'm just not going to deal with it.
Speaker 1:That's the problem. Is the. Is the fight for that is gone, because it's like we shouldn't have a whole group of women that would rather be locked in with a bear than men, but not the gorilla, though.
Speaker 3:Well, well that's different.
Speaker 4:That's for men I also think it has a lot to do with talking to your partner and learning who how they like to be led like. I come off aggressive because I've always had a goddamn cry baby, I've always had to be aggressive, but for a masculine man and for a man who can be assertive when they speak, I melt or I or I chill let me say this when you, when you text me yesterday, it was like I was like, sorry for being rude.
Speaker 3:I was like, nick, I didn't even take it that way, whatever wait, but you and you didn't but you whatever, I just like how you melt and chill I do.
Speaker 3:I'm about to melt in place nigga but I think that goes back to, like I'm gonna say, for me, I'm so, I'm so grounded in who I am that it that it takes a lot to move me off of who I am. Right, you really have to disrupt my spirit for me to really get to a point to where I can't control my emotions. And I know, for me personally, there's only a few people that can do that. And the people that can do that I know for a fact nine times out of ten will not do that. And I think that people have become so fickle and they let social media, they let those that they need to be close to them sway them so easily that they take these talking points and they take these videos and they take in the heart and then they try to adapt that to their own personal behavior instead of just being who you are yeah, there's not a lot of organicness going on for sure, mcfly.
Speaker 4:What do you think?
Speaker 2:I said I couldn't answer the question you didn't say you couldn't answer that.
Speaker 4:I thought by now you would have had an answer. Shit nigga. I still got to fly back in and see, um, we were asked to discuss the stigma that comes along with being a single woman who chooses to be single and chooses not to date. Oh, I don't know about that.
Speaker 2:What the stigma like, how she's viewed or perceived.
Speaker 4:I think so because recently, recently um tracy ellis ross spoke about this, about uh, no, tracy was wild.
Speaker 3:She what she's wild and she's trying to get young yeah yeah, she just trying to get some young dick what you mean by that.
Speaker 2:That's how she man of her age yeah, she don't want. She want young dick, that's it the man of her age weren't into what she was into.
Speaker 3:Yeah, she just want young dick, just stick a it. The man of her age weren't into what she was into.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she just want young dick she want to stick a finger in a booty hole somewhere. What the?
Speaker 3:fuck yeah, just say you want to rob the cradle, Rob, rob, rob whatever, what's wrong with her wanting someone wanting?
Speaker 1:Nothing's wrong.
Speaker 4:If it's consensual, but just say it, it's extra shit.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's extra shit.
Speaker 4:She's saying yeah, yeah, but how did y'all come to that conclusion?
Speaker 1:come on, because it's the same either way come on now you don't think niggas feel the same way older niggas.
Speaker 4:Did you see where she was speaking about? You know not having children and not having a family at her age. Did we talk about the same Tracy?
Speaker 3:yeah, yeah, tracy, with all that ass a lot of men.
Speaker 1:she do got a lot of ass she dragging a wagon. Yeah Well, they say if they see men without kids at a certain age, they think something's wrong with that motherfucker.
Speaker 4:But they think the same thing about women. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he's saying it's a mutual stigma.
Speaker 1:But Tracy was talking about getting young dick yeah.
Speaker 4:I mean, at this fucking point, go and get it, Tracy.
Speaker 3:A lot of what Tracy was saying. My only response to that was how are you selecting these partners? Were you really venting people or were you just going based solely off of physical attraction, because it seemed like? Because that's not, I say that you know Tracy grew up very privileged. We know who her mom is. We know who her daddy is. She grew up very rich. She went and she was fame and fortune was not hard for her to come by. So her circles was not the same as what our circles would be or what the average black woman in inner city life would be.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 3:It's not, it's not, it's not the same black woman in inner city life would be right. It's not, it's not the it's not the same. So my thing was like what, what environment would you put in you in putting yourself in to actually select a potential partner that you couldn't find? Nobody, because if you're only going off of people in the entertainment industry understandable, because you're not people I don't think people, I don't think a lot of people in the entertainment industry are there looking for connections with substance, like that dumb ass shit.
Speaker 1:Paul Pierce said if I can make a guess, it would be she was with people in like more powerful positions than her older. Older men in those positions aren't going to be willing to do different things. They're not going to be willing to play a certain role as a man. She's going to have to play her position in that position, right. So I can understand where she was coming from in that, but it's like that's like you said, you chose to go into that pool. You know this is how these men are. That ain't going to change. So yeah, you gotta take some onus in that.
Speaker 3:But I, I do also. I do also feel like it's it's when certain women make a certain amount of money, it's hard for them to play a subservient role. Yeah, because they feel like I don't need you, I can get it by myself. That's what I think happened. So, and I, and I think that's kind of what she struggled from, because she don't need nobody, kind of what she struggled from because she don't need nobody. She's always, and even even what was left to her, that's probably more than what most people who pursue her would make. So she's not so from her. From my perspective, her relationships had to be built off substance, because it's not like she doesn't need anybody to provide for her. So it has it had to be matters of the heart okay.
Speaker 4:Well, in reference to the to, to the non-tracy ellis woman in her um in her question, I don't know. I think the stigma against um single women is it is unhealthy. I think it's okay for you to be a single woman and and choose not to have a study partner. You shouldn't be labeled as anything other than just a damn woman who made a conscientious choice. Relationships are hard as hell and stressful and sometimes you just do not have it in you to be in another one and I don't think that should be a problem at all, because that shit is stressful.
Speaker 4:I I digress.
Speaker 1:I'm about to go in a rampage but everybody, I think it's all fucked up. I think everybody trying to be young.
Speaker 4:Don't want to grow up.
Speaker 1:Well, yeah, but Not just saying.
Speaker 4:I'm just saying in general, my knees remind me of everyone, well, even I experienced it with not having children and people who don't know why I don't have children. You 40? Oh you getting up there, your clock ticking.
Speaker 2:Well, that ain't their business.
Speaker 4:It's like well, you should tell the fucking people, because maybe they do not give a damn if it's their business or not. But that's just it, bottom line. People need to learn how to mind their own goddamn business and let people do what they're going to do. If you want to be single, you should be able to be single and not have to answer any damn questions towards it or not have to deal with anybody making any type of judgment towards you, because it ain't nobody's damn business why you want to be single. Same thing with children.
Speaker 4:There are a lot of people who just don't even fucking want kids. I say it all the time If I knew that I could have children without a hitch, I probably would want them motherfuckers in my house, because I don't like all the goddamn kids in my house. I can't handle more than one or two. I don't want all them damn kids living with me. But because I'm one of those people that once you tell me I can't do something, I think I'll do it then now I'm like but in my younger days I didn't want children because I didn't want them kids living with me.
Speaker 4:Yeah, so I mean, some people just genuinely don't desire that and it should be nothing wrong with that I mean this I don't see anything wrong with a woman being single if that's her choice.
Speaker 3:I don't see why people have an issue with that. But again, live your life, do what you want to do.
Speaker 1:Yeah, definitely. I just think everybody keep trying to explain themselves to everybody and you don't have to.
Speaker 4:And you don't have to, and that's just the thing. That's what we're. Growing up, yeah, well, growing up, yeah, no. Well, this the person who asked the question. She growed to shit. No, no, I don't mean that she's asking for podcast. Yeah, for podcast purposes, she, she's actually go to starbucks and be like hey, um. The next question is why is being an opportunist the new norm, versus grinding and getting it out the mud? That ain't new yeah, niggas been um scamming and jamming for isn't that smarter, not harder?
Speaker 2:I?
Speaker 4:mean, yeah, niggas been scamming and jamming for.
Speaker 1:But it's like uh, like matt was saying, with the buying bots, you have to deal with that it's like you do it that way is it and. Is it? Is it really easier?
Speaker 4:Yeah, and I tie a lot of things back to social media as well, because I do think that you know it's a lot of like oh, niggas should be paying for everything. You should need to have these niggas do this and this and that going on on social media. And then you see the woman that I'm not going to talk about.
Speaker 3:That, but no she got dues paying for everything, but she's sucking and fucking for these strips.
Speaker 4:She's doing something, yeah, she's not just getting it, it's an illusion that people are running with. It is all a fucking illusion. Like literally.
Speaker 3:I would say that you grind to the opportunity to present yourself.
Speaker 4:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:I like that. I think people have a disconnect with money too. What you mean because if you listen to the way we talk about like certain entertainers and like you'll hear people throw numbers out and you're like ain't no way that motherfucker's making that much money. But in our heads it's like, oh, this is where it's at. So people are like how do I get to a hundred hundred million dollars? You're like everybody ain't got a hundred million dollars no, like I promise you that like?
Speaker 1:yeah it ain't that easy and I don't know, maybe they think it's that's how it works, but it's like you didn't see what joe rogan had to do to get to that contract and the same thing was like what they talk about with liquid and uh, and what you're worth yeah, different so it's like you might be worth that much, but it doesn't mean that's what you can actually have.
Speaker 3:Kanye don't have a billion liquid. Yeah, no, he ain't got no billion right now he, definitely he spent, he spent most of that bill gates probably got a billion liquid, but kanye spent most of the money on that.
Speaker 4:Fuck the bad studio um but can?
Speaker 3:I saw. It's funny. I saw another video yesterday and he was like I didn't understand the difference between people who are rich and people who weren't so rich until I bought a house. And then he panned the camera around he said look at these goddamn trees. And it's like it was like the shrubs, like those motherfuckers, are a hundred dollars a piece at lowes and the dude had like 20. He said I'm counting. He said he said as a homeowner, you drop by like I don't know what that shit called they doing good. And I was like that's the real shit, I'm like damn, you got that.
Speaker 3:Okay, I know how much that costs okay, different, you got a box cut on them. I live. Look, he said some of us live in the neighborhood. Some of us live in the neighborhood. It's different, yeah. Some of us just happy to be here. Some of us are thriving in the neighborhood, yeah, so it ain't better to go quick though no, no, definitely, not definitely.
Speaker 1:But that's all.
Speaker 4:Like you said, society I mean it really depends, because if we get another damn pandemic, I might, I might, I might have to scam with the scammers, because none of them niggas in jail.
Speaker 1:You are wrong about that.
Speaker 4:No, just the ones that did the excessive ones. Okay, I'm not cosigning this. They hit a million, hit two million, hit two million. Them ones is in there. Them ones is in there.
Speaker 1:We're going to see some niggas in 2027 getting locked up. Jesus Christ, it's going to catch up to yours?
Speaker 4:No, yeah, I agree, I'm just kidding. But the next question is do we think that the recent spaceship with Katy Perry, did they really go on a spaceship?
Speaker 2:I don't care.
Speaker 4:Listen, I don't care Listen.
Speaker 3:You lost me to Katy Perry and Gale. They went to space.
Speaker 4:I think they might have went and the only reason why I think they went is because of Gayle's reaction. I told y'all them white women was going up there, they just happy, they ringing that bell. And then Gayle got up there and was like I would have went, but it cost too much.
Speaker 1:They paid for that. No, they did it for free. It's advertisement. He's selling.
Speaker 4:It's an advertisement I, I think there was, there were weird things like, like when they opened when they opened the door and hurried up, close that motherfucker back and did open it again. That was weird. But gail kissing that dirt, gail, don't give me.
Speaker 4:She kissed dirt for no damn reason that scares me, though, that that's how cheap this shit is yeah, they popped that motherfucker pop, pop, pop that little dope and like it was a damn civic um. But yeah, I don't either way, it doesn't matter, it doesn't affect me. The egg price is still to cost a goddamn much. That's the fuck I'm worried about.
Speaker 1:But I think they went yeah, the only thing is innovation, thanks, yeah, they definitely.
Speaker 4:Um, gail took a ass up there. Oprah told her to go in her place, I'm sure um they want to know the thoughts on the carmelo anthony case. Um, oh yeah, we discussed that on the carmelo anthony case um the what. Yeah, we discussed that earlier the carmelo anthony case the young gentleman who um stabbed the I'm waiting for the white gentleman to death the two young there were two young teenagers oh, the kids um the kids
Speaker 4:I don't think justice is going to be to be served in that. I think they're going to give the gentleman who did the stabbing an astronomical amount of time, because it has involved the worst case of white rage that I've seen this month. And no, it hasn't. What was worse, the father who killed the sheriff, the father who killed the sheriff, he did get damn. Might I say that I'm mighty proud of that man for walking through with his head held high. He stood the fuck on business and I they were also not going to give his son justice and he took justice into his own hand. And I am not mad at that gentleman.
Speaker 4:I saw the video, he did what he he did what the fuck he had to do. The little boy was running away. Um, there was no threat to that officer. That young man was running away, so he did what he had to do. Good job, dad. Back to carmelo. Um, they're not gonna. It's an unfortunate situation because both families lost out. The the gentleman who was was stabbed. Unfortunately, he was trying to do an adult's job. If he felt like carmelo was in a space he wasn't supposed to be in, go get somebody. It wasn't your job to to to police him or to tell him what to do and give him the one with the tent with the tent and, given the environment that they were in carmelo, was probably scared.
Speaker 3:They live in texas and and wasn't he being bullied and he's able to self-defense? Yeah, I don't know enough. I'm not gonna mention.
Speaker 4:That's why I'm not talking yeah, he was being bullied and it was self-defense I just feel, like they're going to end up giving. I mean, they're now. They're now passing death threats and shit to the damn judge that that allowed him to get a bill that was um that was um, you know, affordable for his family.
Speaker 4:His family seemed to already have had money. They lived in a really nice home and drove really nice cars. These people are going online and lying and saying that they're taking the gofundme money and whatever. I just feel like like I hate that it was a black boy and a white boy, because if it were just two white children, the conversation would be totally fucking different. Or two black children I hate that it was a black boy and a white boy Because now we're probably going to witness this young man go to jail for the astronomical amount of time for self-defense, and so that is my take on that I don't know enough.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's my, that's my take on me.
Speaker 4:Y'all know I watch all the. I read all the black shits I get you, but we're we weren't there.
Speaker 1:And it's tough because it's like if that was my kid and my kid was out of line, I still don't think my kid should be dead, so it's tough yeah, no, yeah, and that's why I said my heart goes out to both families, because they both are.
Speaker 4:They're both suffering right now there. There is no party in this situation that isn't in astronomical pain. So I, I, my heart goes out to both families, for sure, but I, I, definitely, I don't know.
Speaker 4:You got a good lawyer please stand around you just definitely hope that, um, it, it just it just works out for everybody. Um, I'm gonna ask this question y'all, but I don't. I've never heard this in my life, so I'm gonna ask this question. I do not. I don't have an answer. I mean, it's a simple question, I just don't have the answer for it because, because I ain't never heard it um they this person asked why is there a taboo against black women who date korean or asian men?
Speaker 4:I never heard that some of them asian motherfuckers is finer than a motherfucker. I never heard nobody say black women can't. Now I do hear nowadays. Occasionally I'll hear somebody say something about black women dating outside of their race. But I think it's because it's been made such a big deal. Okay, black men get rich, they go date white women, not. Not that I feel like that's the case, I don't. But now we're dating outside of our race and we hear things. But I never heard nobody say don't date no Asian because some of them, especially them Asian crips. Why are they in? What the fuck? Yes, lord them Asian crips. They be cripping, they be throwing up chokie. Yes.
Speaker 1:So it could just be any Asian crip yes, the way you said it Shoot.
Speaker 4:Yes, the way you said it shoot him up, bang bang. What's homeboy, what's crit max homie? I don't know. Y'all know, y'all know. I like him to shoot him up, bang bang. My next nigga gonna have to have two, at least two tattoos on his face, bam I never heard that.
Speaker 1:I remember being what was it uh?
Speaker 4:yes, we grew up with theo right, yeah, and theo was fine he was on that radio like, hey y'all, thank you for coming.
Speaker 3:92.3. Oh, I have no comment on this question.
Speaker 4:And then he popped out on Boisha. He was short, tight-eyed, he was fine as shit, though Wow, yes, that's my answer. I never heard nobody say that it's an Asian nigga on my motherfucking timeline right now, every black in america being that nigga's goddamn in.
Speaker 1:But I know they do good baby did an asian write this, or was it?
Speaker 4:it's a black lady who asked me this she want an asian man. Go get him. Get you what? Get you an asian man? Because, baby, I have not never heard nobody tell. And we make beautiful children when we mix. The right a marie ain't she asian, she asian, and yes, she is a marie. And janae a A Marie and Jhene Aiko Make beautiful children when we mix with Asian people, don't?
Speaker 1:say Jhene Aiko.
Speaker 4:Ain't she fine? Yeah, mix them races together, baby. I'm trying to tell you right now yes again, I'm gonna need my next nigga to have at least two tattoos on his face, preferably right here. Boom. Next question Try to let y'all know.
Speaker 3:That's the second question. That was just for her.
Speaker 1:She want a nigga with no job.
Speaker 3:Well, I mean she's already said she's fine with paying half the shit.
Speaker 1:That's going to be more than half. That's going to be all the shit.
Speaker 4:What is wrong with me being fine with going 50-50?
Speaker 2:It's going to be 100-0. In that scenario, you'll be paying everything.
Speaker 3:I don't like y'all. All you're going to do is drop off a dick 90-10.
Speaker 2:You're going to be.
Speaker 4:Jody. Oh God please, I hate Jody.
Speaker 1:You're going to come back with a number seven.
Speaker 4:I bought dinner. I hate Jody. I don't like Jody at all.
Speaker 2:Really, Jody was my favorite. That nigga with tattoos is going to be Jody.
Speaker 4:Go whore dude, I don't like Jody at all. I don't like Jody. I do like Lucy's, that's it.
Speaker 3:Cry for your mom.
Speaker 4:Give me a strawberry shake. Did you say cry?
Speaker 2:for your mom Mama.
Speaker 4:Mama, that shit is's good, ain't it? Lucy's good as shit did y'all, do you guys know, the theme of the most recent met gala.
Speaker 2:No, some was it ultra black it is it?
Speaker 4:I don't know. It wasn't ultra, but it was dandyism, Dandyism yeah.
Speaker 2:Dandy.
Speaker 4:Black shit.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 4:Why? Because we were asked. I'm going to have to ask you this. In a way. She asked me when we actually spoke because I had to call her and get clarity. Do we feel like it was okay for the white people to dress up in the dandyism outfits? That's the thing.
Speaker 3:I didn't care. Personally, I haven't seen it, so I don't care.
Speaker 4:I don't give a damn about that. Why the fuck would I get?
Speaker 2:that Drop the ball. Yeah, they didn't get the assignment.
Speaker 1:No, they did horribly, but you know what they could just be like. Well, I felt it was inappropriate.
Speaker 4:Okay, but you know what they could just be like. Well, I felt it was inappropriate, okay. So the lady who asked me the question, she felt like it was inappropriate for them to, to, to dress, um, in that way and I felt like if they would have went and they would have went all out it as long as they I mean, shit, shit, I don't, I don't care what they, what they were to the gala, I just realized what the fuck they was even doing in them damn costumes every year. So I didn't. I see the Met Gala every year, but I didn't know what it was.
Speaker 1:I actually had to ask her, you watch it.
Speaker 4:No, I see the highlights and stuff. I don't watch it. I didn't know what it was until she told me what it was. I was like what the fuck is that Like? What are they doing?
Speaker 2:Did she have like a follow-up question to Andre 3000's piano backpack?
Speaker 4:What was that? I have a question why did he have that on? Was there a symbolism?
Speaker 1:Because he put out a flute album too. He put out a piano album. He put that one. Oh, did he.
Speaker 2:I heard it wasn't, it was trash. Yeah, I heard that it was trash, it was. It was from 10 years ago or like whatever.
Speaker 4:Yeah, he he he's not a piano player, so he decided, doing shit to be doing shit at this point yeah, which is dope, I mean, if you get. If you have freedom, that's freedom. Yeah, he had that part of life but sometimes we gotta go.
Speaker 1:Hey man, that's too much freedom, nigga. Why you wearing that piano?
Speaker 3:look here, man. If anybody said that to Jaden, they played the house nigga. Jaden with the house. Nigga, hey, listen.
Speaker 1:I might have been the only guy who went.
Speaker 4:I laughed. I laughed, I said this nigga is wild. No, that's a house nigga. I think that the woman who asked me this question, I think ultimately, I think she just be trying to find a way to be supportive, but be um is she white?
Speaker 4:but be um respectful in her support because she because she yeah because, she asked me a lot of um like racially based questions, and I think that it really is her just trying to be supportive. She she is like avid watcher. She doesn't damn near seeing everything that we do, and I think she just wants to know how, how to be supportive of us um in a space where she's still being respectful, if that makes sense it.
Speaker 3:It's all about intention.
Speaker 4:Yeah, it's definitely all about the intention. Definitely, you know me, definitely.
Speaker 1:Be true to your heart? Yeah, and let us deal with it.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I don't have an issue with the people who, with the white people who did select to go in the dandyism outfit.
Speaker 1:They didn't do the Ted Danson. Is it Danson Dansa? How you say his name?
Speaker 4:yeah, tony Danson the Tony now, that would have been a problem yeah that would have been a total problem.
Speaker 4:The next question is okay, would have been a total problem, um. The next question is okay, uh, they want to know what you think about the one percent passing rule in regards to. I don't know if you guys have seen the movie center, but I seen it, the movie centers, and there was a white woman in there and she did have, um, like black roots, without giving too much of the movie. And they want to know, like, how do you do you consider that 1% of black rule, you still being a black person and can engage in all black activity even if you don't physically look black she grew up in the culture.
Speaker 1:That woman grew up in it. You know what? I I I watched it.
Speaker 4:She grew up in I think growing up in the culture has a lot to do with it, because I was asked not to ask somebody who we interviewed about why they say nigga in their music and they're not black. But I so wrapped my black ass around and asked them off of camera and they, and they and they shared with me that they felt close, a closeness to the black culture because that's where they grew up.
Speaker 4:Shush I'm laughing anywho that's where they grew up and that was their circle of friends, and I kind of don't have an issue with that Big pun. That man ain't black. I thought he was fucking mixed or something Puerto.
Speaker 3:Rican is black.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that's what I consider. Puerto Rican people black.
Speaker 3:Them niggas just had one extra. They stopped after Florida.
Speaker 2:At the barbershop yesterday. He ain't in his fuck, florida. At the barbershop yesterday, he ain't in his fuck, bro. At the barbershop yesterday I was sitting down waiting to get braided up and there was this Mexican dude that came in and he saw his homeboy and I don't think he realized I was there. He was just like what's up, nigga. And then he looked at me and got real quiet and sat down and stopped. He quickly realized what was happening. I said he quickly realized what was happening. I said yeah and he got. I decided I didn't hear another nigga come out of his mouth. It was just funny because he was just. He got comfortable and then realized yeah, it just made me think about that, oh boy, did you refer to the same nigga here?
Speaker 4:No, he didn't say that comfortable and he probably also wasn't talking amongst his actual peers.
Speaker 2:That's what that made me think about was because he was like he saw his boy and then when he saw me he was like oh shit, I can't Just.
Speaker 3:To answer the question, though the passing one, if you're referring to the movie, she was, though she was passing. She was 25 black, so I mean it is. It doesn't change um her dna she is, it is. She is who she is, even though, I mean, I know a lot of um um hispanic people who look white I have a sister that looks white, so my cousin has blonde hair and blue eyes.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you're like my sister grew up in the culture in the middle of st louis, missouri, and was black but could pass for white and she still was accepted and embraced and she looked at herself as a black woman.
Speaker 3:So that's because black people are. We are really a uh, to our own fault, a a accepting people I mean, it doesn't help that her name is sansanet, her being mean like the name gave it away.
Speaker 2:It's like God damn it Like yeah, all right. Yeah, I mean you got to remember.
Speaker 4:Oh sorry, you got to remember, in all intents and purposes, that the black woman has the Eve genes, so me and this nigga could have a baby that came out white.
Speaker 3:Push out anything.
Speaker 4:You really rolling the dice yeah, you know, really rolling the dice really, you literally could have a baby that come out my daughter was like she was white.
Speaker 3:When she came out I was like yeah, yeah, we do change.
Speaker 4:We do also change as we grow. I looked I was super light when I came out but my grandmother was.
Speaker 3:My grandmother was only half black, so my grandmother was black, white and Indian, like legit, like I have pictures of her father and her mother. So my grandmother was very, very fair skin and so my daughter was almost damn near the same skin complexion as my grandmother when she was born and she's kind of she's sons. She a little dark now but she's close. If you see above the hair you be like oh that nigga.
Speaker 2:I don't know if my semen has Asian in it. I don't know.
Speaker 4:I am fucking done. No, your two oldest children look like you.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they had to, but they were when they were born oh yeah, but over time yeah they got, it was like they're in the battle with Asian something. Yeah, oh, and then the black jeans are starting to come out now, but like before it was, I was like because I will say, ava, she looked like she was just Hispanic.
Speaker 3:Yeah, she looked like she was just Hispanic. Now she look like a Hispanic baby doll yeah, she was the adorable one big, beautiful eyes.
Speaker 4:What?
Speaker 2:when she came out, she looked rather alien like oh, you mean like all babies look like that in the beginning.
Speaker 3:Some of them, I would say, for the first seven days they just potatoes. All babies look like that in the beginning. Some of them come out with their full heads of hair. I would say, for the first seven days they're just potatoes.
Speaker 4:Get the fuck out of here. They look like potatoes 50 minutes Because I need to ask this question. I don't know if this one is going to be the long one, but this is my last question. That's what she said.
Speaker 1:Fucking pause.
Speaker 2:She didn't say it, though she didn't say it to you talk about why I mean, she isn't anyway, um tuna can this next question is why are women so afraid to date bisexual men?
Speaker 1:I don't know, I'm not bisexual. Yeah, you said they. How did you ask again like how do I know?
Speaker 4:why are women so afraid to date bisexual when y'all have to leave the room? What do you mean? Are afraid another answer I, I, I think it depends on the woman, the woman that you ask really, for real, because up until recently I had some ignorant ass thoughts on it and I would say, like I don't want, like to share my you doing the bending ain't nobody bending me over. I'm so sorry that he's he's this way um. This is just him. He's me still so sorry it's made us still what's your answer?
Speaker 4:honestly, I think there's more than one way to answer this.
Speaker 3:I think will you do do all of them yeah I mean, we got nothing to say.
Speaker 4:I think a lot of women are afraid of what others are going to say about them if they, if they, date bisexual men. I think there's also a lot of women that will date bisexual men and maybe they might not say it out loud or maybe you yourself haven't found those women, but there are a lot of women. There's a man that I follow and he's bisexual and he made a post and asked why women won't date him, and hundreds of women was in under that post. I got that. You call me right now, like what's up, I'm good, I'm in your area, what's good? So he definitely. There's no lack there. I do think. For me personally, um, I don't want to. I didn't want to date. Okay, I might date a bisexual man now because I had to come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual.
Speaker 3:So how the fuck I'm gonna tell somebody else they can't be bisexual but I think men, think men are more accepting of a bisexual woman because of the perceived fantasy.
Speaker 4:Yes, yeah, and that's true, and that's true. But I just think it's such a double standard, because if a woman, if I go kiss my homegirl, then I just kissed my homegirl and then I say, okay, no, I'm not gay.
Speaker 3:I don't like where this is going.
Speaker 4:No, fuck that, I'm not gay, it's the truth, though, if I kiss my homegirl and I say, okay, I'm not gay, but we just had that experience, that's one thing.
Speaker 2:But if two men have the same experience, you're gay Immediately, you're gay forever.
Speaker 4:And I just think that double standard isn't fair because it doesn't allow men to have an opportunity to embark on some of their own fantasies, and I don't think that's fair I think they should be able to.
Speaker 3:Let me ask you this if two dudes run a train together on one girl, are they gay?
Speaker 4:because there's still two penises in the room no, I don't think so, because I think they might just be comfortable with it.
Speaker 2:They just fucking shit but on top of that, the the matter of being gay, being them fucking each other so they're running trains on women.
Speaker 4:They don't know how the rules go. I don't think so. I don't think just because you, I, yeah, I'm with you.
Speaker 4:It's the, the, what will have made if they having a threesome and then they engage in a sexual act with each other, then yes, they're gay. But if or there are, or by which, which I don't but if they are not touching each other and they're just touching that woman, then they're just having a sexual experience with her. I think it's a double standard. I think this shit is fucked up and I think up until recently I had that same ignorant, fucked up thought process. I don't think it's fair, so I don't know.
Speaker 2:I personally, then a pin cushion.
Speaker 4:Some little needles is fair. So I I don't know, I personally. Did she be then a pin cushion, if they're?
Speaker 3:just kind of like taking like on her. I cannot take y'all, you just remind me.
Speaker 2:So it's just it popped in my mind when she said if they're just doing the act on her, it's like would she then be the pin fishing?
Speaker 4:they not poking her at the?
Speaker 1:same time she's the brace in the tower oh my god.
Speaker 2:Oh my god. I feel what you're saying, des. I do feel like that is a big stigma, especially in our culture, of the whole thing of.
Speaker 3:You love what you love.
Speaker 2:Because I've heard men say that they've had Encounters, encounters or experimented in college or whatever, and then they're like but it doesn't, it's not stripped away. A woman will get the kind of like the grace of saying well, she was just experimenting. It's good with men, it'll be like oh no, you're gay, bro, If you did it, you're gay, that's not fair.
Speaker 4:What if you?
Speaker 3:don't go to Blue Bone State Depends on what you did.
Speaker 1:You start sucking dick. You take a dick dog.
Speaker 3:You can't take that back.
Speaker 1:I was experimenting.
Speaker 4:Well, I have a homegirl, she, I have a homegirl and she and she ate a bitch out and she don't want to do that shit again.
Speaker 3:That's not her, she's not, she wasn't cleaning her no, it's not that.
Speaker 4:She just isn't into women like that. She experienced it ain't the same.
Speaker 1:That's the double standard but it should be like it should be men if I came up to you and said, hey, I sucked my homie's dick back in third grade.
Speaker 3:Whoa you're gonna be like what the fuck if you tell me you suck dick in third grade. Whoa, you're going to be like what the fuck, even in third grade. I'm going to be like If you tell me you suck dick in third grade.
Speaker 4:I'm going to be concerned that what adult was showing that to you and made you want to go that route in third grade, If you tell me in high school or in college you suck the dick, then I'm going to be like okay at this scenario.
Speaker 2:What if it's? He said it once, as opposed to motherfuckers said he did it, like multiple times? Motherfuckers said he did it once and he was like you know what it's just not. It wasn't for me, as opposed to, I did it throughout an entire whatever you enjoyed it at that point.
Speaker 4:That's not, that's not experimenting, but see that's. But see, the thing is, you enjoyed it.
Speaker 2:You're battling with yourself or how you felt about it. You liked it. That's what I'm saying, that one time oh, it wasn't for me, all right, it wasn't for you, cool. But then if you Let, me say this.
Speaker 3:Let me say this, Shout out to my cousin the shady alien.
Speaker 4:Shout out baby, that's my baby.
Speaker 3:I love him so much Me too. So he was telling me he was like. He was like. You know, my family, my family, calls me recently. He's like recently. I'm telling you I tried, I tried, he said he said he was either senior in high school or right after he had graduated high school. He said I tried, I said I want. He said I want to try, just to make sure. And he said he said it first of all took me a while to get going, he said. And then when I got in there it felt like hot chitlins and I knew it wasn't for me.
Speaker 4:I am talking about vagina, right?
Speaker 2:I've never heard him work when you see this episode, friend call me, because we need to talk this out.
Speaker 3:So when? So when he told me and my wife that meanwhile I was like, oh yeah, he for sure, that's what it felt like for you, then damn, because I told him. I said because I had a totally different experience I said when I said and I when I said and I said this is it it was yeah. Yes, this is it yeah. That was that's rough.
Speaker 4:Anyway, yeah, high chillness is what I say.
Speaker 1:I got a friend who he did that. He let a dude suck him off and then he was like it's not okay, he sucked my dick but he had never done it again. Yeah, he just, and I was just like, okay, I guess I could give you that, but you ain't never gonna live this down. Yeah, I mean I remember that time that nigga sucked your dick he just experienced it.
Speaker 4:He just got an experience. Probably was the experience of his fucking life too, I think, also in our community. As amazing as some of the transsexual women look nowadays, that doesn't matter. It's not what, it's still gay. Us women also have a lot of competition there, so it also might be a little bit of jealousy as well as to why women won't date the bisexual men. Because I'm damn sure, not Because people know nigga, I used to be a nigga and you look better than me because it's a lot of them out there.
Speaker 1:They motherfucking bitches is bob and this is where everything comes from.
Speaker 4:Niggas need to mind their own right business definitely need to mind their own business, and I also think, because I, because I think about this, I'll be. This is a question. I've actually thought about parts of being asked this, I also think with there being so many down low men and with the stigma of AIDS being put so far on the men. Like everybody can get AIDS when it being put on them, I think that also it puts a fear in women.
Speaker 4:Because, now we're like are we safe doing this? So I think that puts a fear in women, because now we're like like, are we safe doing this?
Speaker 2:So I think that puts a fear in women as well.
Speaker 4:Me personally, I think if I were to meet somebody, if I were single and I were to meet somebody and they were bisexual and we connected, as long as there was an understanding that we were monogamous in our relationship just us I will probably give that person a chance, because you might miss the love of your life. Because, when I think about it, when, when I dated women, something I liked about them was they were like soft and nurturing and loving and they remembered they would go out, all out, on your birthday and valentine's day and whatever. Not that niggas don't do that, but women are more susceptible to do it because we know what we like and if I'm dating a man that maybe is like softer in that area, he might go out on my birthday, but then I still also get the masculinity. So I might give a bisexual nigga a chance.
Speaker 2:I don't know that makes a lot of sense because but I do think that people, because it's it's the percentage is higher, people automatically jump to the that fear exactly but the thing is, I think no matter if you're sexual, sexually active period and you should be getting yourself checked out you don't just assume that it's only like it's one woman.
Speaker 3:I gotta check myself for you.
Speaker 4:We're talking about people that are outside with bisexuality.
Speaker 2:Even with that, it's like, yeah, I get that you're worried about the fear of him, it's like, but at the at the end of the day, you should always get yourself checked out and get them checked out, because you don't want to just assume that yeah, regardless, so yeah, so that's my answer.
Speaker 4:Okay, I'm just hung up. You what?
Speaker 2:hung up on this with the pin cushion, the hot chitlin shit yeah, that hot chitlin shit did it. I mean, if that's how it felt for you, that's I don't it.
Speaker 4:I said yeah, he, that's what he said cause.
Speaker 2:I mean, if that's how it felt for you, that's I don't want like half of me is like who was this?
Speaker 1:like cause that's a loose shoot that's my first thought.
Speaker 3:I was like was she just, did she just have transplasia and you just ain't had no good one?
Speaker 4:but no shitmans yeah shit, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I might eat that shit.
Speaker 2:Chitlins eat that shit that's the most nigga shit you said on here thus far hot sauce or no hot sauce well, this has been episode 197 of the heavyweight podcast if your pussy look like chitlins I could put it on.
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Speaker 4:All that shit Until next time. Thank you for watching Peace.
Speaker 1:That's for sure, that's a wrap, y'all that's how she wrote. Make sure you click like subscribe. Tune in we on the Austrian platform. Until next time We'll hide at you.
